I've been seeing the "polya" abbreviation being used for a while now, and at first I thought it was just someone who didn't speak English very well. Then I started hearing rumblings in the community that some people wanted us to all stop using the abbreviation "poly" to refer to polyamory because Polynesian people also use the abbreviation "poly"
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If, like the Native Americans and like Latinos, the Polynesian folk decide to reject the word because of its colonizational roots, I'll be happy to call them something else of their choosing. But I don't think it's for them to decide that *we* can't also choose our own name just because it happens to be similar to their given name.
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And got accused of white privelege and "dictionary fallacy". (My parting shot to the mod who followed me off the board to ask me why I posted what I posted about the BS white privelege was that I was a "stupid white chick" who had the intelligence to use reference materials correctly.
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White people are notorious for the White Saviour Complex and swooping down from our position of privilege to save the brown people is as much a symptom of colonialism as appropriation is.
I'd like to see an actual person from a Polynesian country tell them to knock it off. How much you wanna bet they'd whitesplain racism and colonialism to them?
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I'd like to save this and, if the "polya" discussion takes hold enough to become more of a thing, reprint pieces of it in any Polyamory in the News coverage of the issue that I do. Can I have your OK for this?
Also, a minor fix:
> happen to have the same Latin prefix
Actually Greek. (Latin would be multi- ).
Alan M.
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I'm fine with pausing by default when an oppressed people says "stop, this hurts us", but then I think we need to actually examine the situation to see if we are really hurting someone or if this is an individual who is not clear on the tools of oppression and simply sees oppression as existing by default because they are oppressed (if that makes sense?).
After actually considering this particular case and not just reacting, I agree with you that this is not a case of either cultural appropriation or of oppression, just of two independent cultures running in to each other and in order to make the case to stop using the word, we have to choose a winner in the Oppression Olympics when it'd be better to just clarify when there is confusion.
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https://twitter.com/search?q=%23polya&src=typd
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