First of all, let's define "cheating". Two people have an agreement, either explicit or implicit, about how their relationship should look. If implicit, the "cheater" knows that the spouse would not approve even if they never made any vows on the subject. What that agreement is about is not relevant to this definition. It could be about sexual
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Ugh.
Seems she sought out poly guys because so many of them took the attitude you describe here.
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There is a reason why monos fear us. Well, there are many, but this one, unfortunately, has more truth to it than I am happy about. As far as I'm concerned, if I want anyone to respect my right to have relationships that I want to have, then I have to extend that respect back. I may not understand their choices, or even like them, but if they wish to be in a monogamous relationship, I have to respect that choice, or my demands for equal rights have no weight.
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Also, sorry to hear about the above situation. It sucks, and I hate finding out after the fact like that.
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Here's the real irony... she was demanding I give up my other partners & be with her exclusively because she "couldn't handle poly."
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