Wednesday, January 11, 2006
Live to Love, but Learn to Live
Current mood: blah
So somethings don't turn out like you thought and sometimes you just want things to be the way you want. It's a hard lesson to learn. I think that love is something that when you really fall into you never fall out of. But I also think there needs to be a balance and when you love someone you need to learn how to live on your own. It seems to me that when people date they become more of one person instead of keeping their separate identity's and it sucks cause when you break up you have to reestablish that. I don't want to date anyone else that has to change for me and I don't want to change for anyone else. I want to date someone that has a strong sense of self and is not worried about how I percieve the way he is or the way he thinks. I just want him to respect me and if he is the right person for me then I won't have to change and neither will he inorder for us to stay together and have a strong relationship. It's so easy to say, but so much harder to do. I'm working on it... *raising the bar on my standards for boys*
Current mood: blah
So somethings don't turn out like you thought and sometimes you just want things to be the way you want. It's a hard lesson to learn. I think that love is something that when you really fall into you never fall out of. But I also think there needs to be a balance and when you love someone you need to learn how to live on your own. It seems to me that when people date they become more of one person instead of keeping their separate identity's and it sucks cause when you break up you have to reestablish that. I don't want to date anyone else that has to change for me and I don't want to change for anyone else. I want to date someone that has a strong sense of self and is not worried about how I percieve the way he is or the way he thinks. I just want him to respect me and if he is the right person for me then I won't have to change and neither will he inorder for us to stay together and have a strong relationship. It's so easy to say, but so much harder to do. I'm working on it... *raising the bar on my standards for boys*