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Sunday, June 11 2006
My Life Plan
Current mood: peaceful
So here's what I'm thinking... I need a plan and what to do with my life. I want a life that doesn't need someone else.. I want to want someone else. I AM going to be fine with being single. I am NOT going to just start dating someone because I'm lonely. I want something meaningful, but fun. So here's my list of what I'm going to do about a job, school, bf's and friends.
1. Job - I am going to school and get my Pharmacy Tech Certification. I will have this started and hopefully finished by the end of summer. I will get a job as soon as I get back from my vacation even if it involves working at Taco Bell.. What makes me think that I'm better than those people? They work hard for a living and that's what I'm going to do to! (although I'll probably try to find a job somewhere else first! :) )
2. School - I'm going to apply to SWAU. I think that I've seriously suffered in my relationship with God and I feel that maybe I need to be with the people that love and care about me to realize that God loves me too. Plus it's close to home so I can go steal grocerys! Even though I'll be far away from my friends in TN maybe it will be good for a while. But I want them all to know that I love them and I will miss them more than they know.
3. Bf's - Jake is in God's hands.. I will think that we are meant for each other anymore. If it happens then it happens, but I believe we have a difference in beliefs that can't be solved by making changes in who the other person is. I don't want to change what I believe. I will always love him and he will always be my first true love. He knows I'm a phone call away if he needs anything ever.
As far as other boys go... When I find someone special I want to mature enough not to fight about stupid things, I want someone that will listen to whatever I have to say even if it's the stupidest thing that's ever come out of my mouth because I want what I have to say to be important enough to at least listen to. I want someone that will open my doors and tell me positive things. He doesn't have to tell me I'm beautiful every min because he'll just make me feel like it. Sometimes when you find that special person he can make you feel like a million bucks... and hell I know I'm worth it so why shouldn't I be treated like it? But don't misunderstand cockiness for confidence. I'm a good person and no matter what life has thrown at me I haven't changed that. I'm giving and fun. I want someone that compliments me and me them. I don't want someone all over me 24/7, but I want someone that's comfortable holding my hand. I want someone that's not afraid to be hurt because they realize that life only happens once and you mine as well love and love well while you can. I'd rather have my heart broken a thousand times then not ever taken a chance on love. However, I'm not taking any more stupid chances because I believe the guy will change. So my goal for this week is finding out what qualities I want in a guy. I wanna be like Megan Lilly. I don't want to settle and I won't. but as for my summer flings I think having fun and being with someone you are comfortable with and that you have fun hanging out with and that makes you laugh is good. I can't remember the last time I laughed as much as when I'm with him. He really is one of my best buddies!
4. Friends - I have alot of friends.. and alot of friends that do things that I can't do. I'm not the same girl that lived in TN. I don't want to die anymore, I want to be happy and live a fullfilling life. I want to have a career and perhaps someday in the distant distant future a family. I don't want to have alot of bad influences in my life, but it's not completely their fault, but I'm learning to say no.
So if you've read this entire blog then you probably care at least a little what happens to me and I thank you! I want to be happy and with good people in my life and a stronger me than I think that can be arranged
MICHAEL
well as far as i can see the little girl that use to wear brasis and fight all the time with the boys who could play better basketball and all is finally growing up into a women....congrats on the awakening......much luv
Posted by MICHAEL on Sunday, June 11, 2006 at 7:34 PM
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•Im Super, Man•
i dunno bout playin better basketball like michael says cuz u still cant take me witout cheating but it is a great plan and i know you can do it sence you realize what needs to be done!
My Life Plan
Current mood: peaceful
So here's what I'm thinking... I need a plan and what to do with my life. I want a life that doesn't need someone else.. I want to want someone else. I AM going to be fine with being single. I am NOT going to just start dating someone because I'm lonely. I want something meaningful, but fun. So here's my list of what I'm going to do about a job, school, bf's and friends.
1. Job - I am going to school and get my Pharmacy Tech Certification. I will have this started and hopefully finished by the end of summer. I will get a job as soon as I get back from my vacation even if it involves working at Taco Bell.. What makes me think that I'm better than those people? They work hard for a living and that's what I'm going to do to! (although I'll probably try to find a job somewhere else first! :) )
2. School - I'm going to apply to SWAU. I think that I've seriously suffered in my relationship with God and I feel that maybe I need to be with the people that love and care about me to realize that God loves me too. Plus it's close to home so I can go steal grocerys! Even though I'll be far away from my friends in TN maybe it will be good for a while. But I want them all to know that I love them and I will miss them more than they know.
3. Bf's - Jake is in God's hands.. I will think that we are meant for each other anymore. If it happens then it happens, but I believe we have a difference in beliefs that can't be solved by making changes in who the other person is. I don't want to change what I believe. I will always love him and he will always be my first true love. He knows I'm a phone call away if he needs anything ever.
As far as other boys go... When I find someone special I want to mature enough not to fight about stupid things, I want someone that will listen to whatever I have to say even if it's the stupidest thing that's ever come out of my mouth because I want what I have to say to be important enough to at least listen to. I want someone that will open my doors and tell me positive things. He doesn't have to tell me I'm beautiful every min because he'll just make me feel like it. Sometimes when you find that special person he can make you feel like a million bucks... and hell I know I'm worth it so why shouldn't I be treated like it? But don't misunderstand cockiness for confidence. I'm a good person and no matter what life has thrown at me I haven't changed that. I'm giving and fun. I want someone that compliments me and me them. I don't want someone all over me 24/7, but I want someone that's comfortable holding my hand. I want someone that's not afraid to be hurt because they realize that life only happens once and you mine as well love and love well while you can. I'd rather have my heart broken a thousand times then not ever taken a chance on love. However, I'm not taking any more stupid chances because I believe the guy will change. So my goal for this week is finding out what qualities I want in a guy. I wanna be like Megan Lilly. I don't want to settle and I won't. but as for my summer flings I think having fun and being with someone you are comfortable with and that you have fun hanging out with and that makes you laugh is good. I can't remember the last time I laughed as much as when I'm with him. He really is one of my best buddies!
4. Friends - I have alot of friends.. and alot of friends that do things that I can't do. I'm not the same girl that lived in TN. I don't want to die anymore, I want to be happy and live a fullfilling life. I want to have a career and perhaps someday in the distant distant future a family. I don't want to have alot of bad influences in my life, but it's not completely their fault, but I'm learning to say no.
So if you've read this entire blog then you probably care at least a little what happens to me and I thank you! I want to be happy and with good people in my life and a stronger me than I think that can be arranged
MICHAEL
well as far as i can see the little girl that use to wear brasis and fight all the time with the boys who could play better basketball and all is finally growing up into a women....congrats on the awakening......much luv
Posted by MICHAEL on Sunday, June 11, 2006 at 7:34 PM
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•Im Super, Man•
i dunno bout playin better basketball like michael says cuz u still cant take me witout cheating but it is a great plan and i know you can do it sence you realize what needs to be done!