Well this might help explain my issues...
She sends me a B-day card and it's
- Almost a month late
- Not actually a B-day card, but a very religious "Thinking of You" card
- Has the following written on it "Sorry I'm so late, but I guess you're going to stick around for a while yet."
I don't think I need to justify my position about my mother and how I love her, but need her at a distance from me.