i've said this 100 times and i'm about to make it 101. see a therapist. i know it sounds horrible and maybe you feel like it's giving up but it's not. i think that in this situation...with this paticular group of friends and with these paticular problems, you really need someone who isn't in the middle of it to talk to. someone who has no idea who i am or who katie is or who rachel is etc. go and talk about how awful we are...then talk about how wonderful we are. just talking about it to someone who really wants to listen will help more than you can imagine. if you don't want to do that (which i'm assuming you don't because i've already told you a hundred times hehe) maybe try writing things out? you probably do that already. but that's how i got through high school. i'd be super upset and i'd go write in my journal and cry (because i'm so emo) but it helped, you know? it's just a matter of getting your thoughts together without someone telling you what to think. ...i think. shit. but i'm telling you what to do now. isn't that just as bad? naoo
johnny stamos. we're mondaytuesdaywednesdaythursdayfridaysaturdaysunday friends. you know what that means? i'm here for you when you need me. i know i wait for you to come to me instead of finding you and making sure you're ok...but that's because we're still kind of working things out between me and you and katie. but that's ok because i think it's getting better. and if you ever need to talk, just come over. you can't call cause i don't have a phone...but if i'm here, i'm yours. :) i don't want to be your therapist...and i mean that in the nicest way possible. friends are there to help, yes, but when it's your friends you're having trouble with you need to find someone else you know? so i'm not going to get in the middle of anything that might be going on in the apartment (you know what i mean) but i'll listen. and i'll give you hugs. and that's the best i can do. <3
if you don't want to do that (which i'm assuming you don't because i've already told you a hundred times hehe) maybe try writing things out? you probably do that already. but that's how i got through high school. i'd be super upset and i'd go write in my journal and cry (because i'm so emo) but it helped, you know? it's just a matter of getting your thoughts together without someone telling you what to think.
...i think.
shit. but i'm telling you what to do now. isn't that just as bad?
naoo
johnny stamos. we're mondaytuesdaywednesdaythursdayfridaysaturdaysunday friends. you know what that means? i'm here for you when you need me. i know i wait for you to come to me instead of finding you and making sure you're ok...but that's because we're still kind of working things out between me and you and katie. but that's ok because i think it's getting better. and if you ever need to talk, just come over. you can't call cause i don't have a phone...but if i'm here, i'm yours. :) i don't want to be your therapist...and i mean that in the nicest way possible. friends are there to help, yes, but when it's your friends you're having trouble with you need to find someone else you know? so i'm not going to get in the middle of anything that might be going on in the apartment (you know what i mean) but i'll listen. and i'll give you hugs. and that's the best i can do.
<3
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