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[johnnydarke]

"And so now, not only do men have to ensure that women have orgasms (their right, to be sure, and a pleasurable task, but ladies - have you tried it? It's either very easy or like playing pool with the lights off: never anywhere in between. I think every woman should have to try giving another woman an orgasm. We'd hear a bit less on the subject

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[specialknives]

Nobody gives someone else an orgasm, having an orgasm has to be something that both people contribute to, otherwise it certainly won't happen. But for what it's worth, I've not found there's much technical difficulty difference between frigging off a woman and frigging off a man. He sounds like he's just fessing up to being a selfish, lazy bastard, and blaming it on women. What a dick!

[ellebabe]

I second the above but think mainly women should take responsibility for their own pleasure.

The subject always makes a quote from Samantha in Sex & the City spring to my mind; When I RSVP to a party, I make it my business to come.

Awesome cake by the way.

[johnnydarke]

I probably should point out that it's a quote from a character in a work of fiction...a character who is a bit of a dick. But also fairly awesome

[ellebabe]

Now I am thinking about all the foot fetishes who more than happily massage ones feet/calves/whatever for as long as you let them and don't expect anymore than a simple 'Thank you'.

[specialknives]

I understood that it was the words of a character from a work of fiction, but I haven't quite grasped what makes it funny, clever or poignant. What he's doing here is claiming to deviate from a popular view, without questioning whether it's a popular view (I question this: if massage was thought an indispensible part of sex by many people I would've had more of them), and then claiming that women are responsible for the (apparent) popular view. He just sounds like an angry man with a lazy mind to me.

[johnnydarke]

pff! Women.

[specialknives]

:D

[crazymeandave]

mms's massage rant is one of his best... thank you for reminding me of it.