What to do?
Has anyone got any ideas on how to sort out an out of control 11 year old? I've run out of ideas now - if hes not throwing chunks of concrete at other kids then he's taunting kids older than him and expecting me help him when they have a go back - which i wont do anymore - this morning i got stopped by 2 different parents who wanted me to have a word with him - 1 for throwing concrete and the other because he had knocked a 9 year old off his elecric scooter and ripped the seat open - the poor kids only got it yesterday and it was his first time out on it! If i ground him then he throws a major strop which gets his dad wound up so he goes and gets drunk so he doesn't have to deal with it or starts on his brothers who are bad enough to start with!
I'm seriously considering contacting social services to see if i can put him into temporary care or something as i dont know how much more i can cope with - but then they might take them all and not let me have them back and i dont want that - i do love them all i just dont like them sometimes!
Please - ideas anyone!!! Help me!!!