First I ran a PB on a 25km race on Saturday - broke the 3 hour mark!
DUDE! Congrats! That's huge :)
As for the ex-girlfriend chatting thing, I don't think you're being unreasonable, no. Some people are totally cool with their current dude/girl being friendly with their ex and some people aren't. I don't think either is right/wrong, it's just the way you feel. But I would probably come at it from the angle that the two of them continuing on a relationship (even if it's just a few jokes) makes you uncomfortable, so that way it doesn't seem like you're just being a crazy, jealous girlfriend.
(Although, with where I'm at right now, I'm probably the last person who should ever even think about giving relationship advice...)
Edit: I have no idea why LJ decided to choose, and then not let me change, my Alison Mack "yum" icon, so, um, enjoy some Chloe Sullivan tongue!porn? Heh.
I'm definitely one of those who aren't. I prefer to pretend she never even existed, or that her head exploded the moment I learned of her terrible existence. But I can fake sane with the best of them, so I'll try the (reasonably) calm approach and take it from there.
TONGUE!PORN FTW! Especially if it's from the lovely miss Sullivan. ;) In return, have some washer!porn! Heheheh!
Break-ins are the worst. That feeling of violation in that place you are supposed to be 100% safe. I've never gotten over it and it happened to me half a lifetime ago
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There have been further happenings since I posted so, yeah. Fuck that! At this point I don't care how unfair it is, but tonight I'm telling him how I feel and then we'll see how he deals with it. We were out on Sunday with my sister and I saw him being sneaky on his phone, but really didn't think anything of it. Only to learn that he was wishing her a happy birthday, complete with kissy faces and shit. He can barely remember mine! So yeah, tonight shit is going down.
When I saw that message, I can't tell you what happened to my insides. It felt like a truck hit me. I do not want to feel that way again, I do not like it. At all. It's more than discomfort now, it freaking hurts! Is it pointless jealousy? Yeah, probably, but I don't like how he's keeping it secret that he's still got some kind of relationship with her. If it's because he knows I wouldn't like it, then why is he doing it? Nope, someone's got some explaining to do, and that's that.
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DUDE! Congrats! That's huge :)
As for the ex-girlfriend chatting thing, I don't think you're being unreasonable, no. Some people are totally cool with their current dude/girl being friendly with their ex and some people aren't. I don't think either is right/wrong, it's just the way you feel. But I would probably come at it from the angle that the two of them continuing on a relationship (even if it's just a few jokes) makes you uncomfortable, so that way it doesn't seem like you're just being a crazy, jealous girlfriend.
(Although, with where I'm at right now, I'm probably the last person who should ever even think about giving relationship advice...)
Edit: I have no idea why LJ decided to choose, and then not let me change, my Alison Mack "yum" icon, so, um, enjoy some Chloe Sullivan tongue!porn? Heh.
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TONGUE!PORN FTW! Especially if it's from the lovely miss Sullivan. ;) In return, have some washer!porn! Heheheh!
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Yeah, definitely sit down and have a chat with the boy. If it's starting to make you crazy, he needs to know.
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When I saw that message, I can't tell you what happened to my insides. It felt like a truck hit me. I do not want to feel that way again, I do not like it. At all. It's more than discomfort now, it freaking hurts! Is it pointless jealousy? Yeah, probably, but I don't like how he's keeping it secret that he's still got some kind of relationship with her. If it's because he knows I wouldn't like it, then why is he doing it? Nope, someone's got some explaining to do, and that's that.
*sizzles*
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