well
today officially sucks. yesterday too, but today moreso.
dad is in hospital, possibly never to leave (age 84 & diabetic, not a great combo, plus it appears he had a heart attack at some point that had not been treated). sister is on way down and will pick me up, son yelled at me because i wasn't the one who called him first, neither was my mom.
ah well.
so much for my plans to shop and cook.