May 10, 2006 18:43
Opinion… it’s a funny thing. Every ones got one about something. It could be about your friends’ boyfriend or about the way the guy walking down the street dresses or the way another person lives his life… well you know what I mean.
But are we in a place to have one??? Do we have the perfect life to have an opinion on someone else’s?
Or is it something that we just can’t stop?
But is it something we should stop?
Having an opinion makes us evaluate our life… makes us look at things and say… I don’t like that… I don’t want to be like that…
But sometimes with some ppl it goes a bit too far. When they express their opinions they tell the other person how to live their life.
You need to realise that just because someone doesn’t live their life according to what you think is best doesn’t mean their life is not fabulous in their own way.
This also comes into play when you’re with someone. If you’re trying to change the way your better half lives maybe you shouldn’t be with them. You may have an opinion on the things they do. But it is up to them to live their life the way they want to.
I think it’s good to have an opinion. It gives life some meaning, some direction. And if you don’t have an opinion on anything... what does your life mean… how do you know if you’re living your life in the way you think is best?
But…
Your opinion is yours… express it if you want… but don’t enforce it…