What Women Want

[jinc1019]

Now take in mind, all women want slightly different things but this isn't about specifics as much as it is what women truly want as a basis. Women want someone who cares about them, not just in some generic way but actually cares. Someone who listens is important because I think most women I know have complained at one time or another about guys not listening. Women want a man who is successful, while this is not vital or important to what a woman wants, it is important to note that women like to brag about their guy in any way they can. Women want to feel special and beautiful, that's a big one. All women no matter who they are, want to feel like their guy sees them as the most beautiful girl in the world. Women want to be surprised, they like having simple things done for them. they don't have to cost a lot of money as long as it's something that will make them feel like they really matter. Women want you to give things up for them occassionally, they like to know that you would rather be with them than with your friends, but women also want a lot of time to go off and be with other women, it's more about KNOWING you want to be with them. Women like to go out and do romantic things. For a lot of people, this is hard because what is romantic? I think people spend way too much time trying to figure that out....because any situation can be romantic, believe me, I've had some weird ones....but the point is, put thought in a place or something you do because if you put thought into it, anywhere can be romantic. Women like to feel protected, I know that sounds dumb but it's true, it's not so much that they need it as much as it is, when they are with a guy they care about, they want to feel like nothing on earth could do anything bad to them. women like chocolate, even if they refuse to eat it, BUY IT FOR THEM. Women want a guy who is good in bed, well actually, everyone wants this....but the way to do this with women, I THINK, is to just take your time and once again, make the situation romantic. unlike men, the best sex women will ever have is in a romantic situation....the reason for this is that women, when they really care about a particular guy...not when they are drunk.....relate sex with loving their guy. Another big one is money, women don't care about it. Now this doesn't mean women won't chase after it, because sometimes they do, but when they do, they don't really love the guy so who cares. trust, most girls have a hard time trusting guys, so if you are a guy who she knows you can go out and NOT end up making out with a complete stranger or cheating on them, then you are doing well. Women also want you to not be thinking about other girls either, NEVER allow a girl to see you looking at another girl like you're attracted to her. it's good to be honest but, women are hurt by it even if you're not doing it intentionally....then after you look at a girl just out of habit, she'll slap you in the shoulder, get pissed off and then go to abercrmbie like always and check out all the pictures of the naked guys there.....don't be offended by this, there's nothing you can do. The most important thing women want is really to feel like their guy cares about them, unlike men though who don't really need this to be proven, women like you to show that constantly....little things like flowers, dinner, etc. Now unfortunately for a lot of guys, women go through stages before finding what they want completely. sometimes women don't want relationships, sometimes women want to be with completely different guys.....sometimes women just want to party all day long and not care about any one person but in the end, all women end up wanting the things I described before. the important thing is for guys to not give up because eventually girls will figure it out for themselves. but while they do, they will ignore a lot of great guys and as usual, a lot of men will get fucked over. but when they do come around......all women want the same thing: to feel like they mean more to their man than anyone else does.
NOW, if I'm wrong, then I'm wrong and it wouldn't be the first time, but I'm pretty sure that is exactly when women want.