Social Lives
Dylan and i spend a lot of time together. While we were in the UK, we wee with each other just about 24 hours a day.
Now, don't get me wrong, we love each other, and there is no one in the world like my little dylan.
But i have always felt that it was always better, at least for me, when people could bring new and exciting experiences from their individual lives into the shared experience of a marraige, or any other long term relationship.
And this week, dylan has just been, at least for him, anyway, just a little social butterfly, seeing friends and going places, without me.
i think it has done wonders for him and also our relationship.
I just love it when he comes home and tells me all the exciting news about what new experiences he has been having. And i think it keeps our own relationship fresh as well. and, of course, that's good for our sex life, isn't it?
Last night, he went with his friend Ryan to a drag king show.
And i went on my own to Bout Time, and just hung out and chatted and flirted with some guys. And around 1.30 am we hooked back up at Bout Time and went and had a late supper/early breakfast at Star Seeds, my favourite 24 hour diner.
Actually, it was a really nice evening, despite it's incredibly late hour. And even though i have hardly got any sleep this weekend, i really feel, mentally at least, very refreshed from this weekend.
Oh, and for some reason, i got a lot of compliments last night for my outfit.
Now, i almost NEVER wear pink.... it's such a cliche for anyone playing gender-fuck with their clothes.
But i just decided that last night, pink was right.
I wore a simple plain, long sleeved mid-pink top, a dark navy layered mini-skirt with tiny pink polka dots, and pink ankle socks. And everyone kept coming up to me all night saying how nice it looked.
Hey, it's nice when someone as old and homely looking as me can get unsolicited compliments from people! I'll take them any day of the week!
Now, don't get me wrong, we love each other, and there is no one in the world like my little dylan.
But i have always felt that it was always better, at least for me, when people could bring new and exciting experiences from their individual lives into the shared experience of a marraige, or any other long term relationship.
And this week, dylan has just been, at least for him, anyway, just a little social butterfly, seeing friends and going places, without me.
i think it has done wonders for him and also our relationship.
I just love it when he comes home and tells me all the exciting news about what new experiences he has been having. And i think it keeps our own relationship fresh as well. and, of course, that's good for our sex life, isn't it?
Last night, he went with his friend Ryan to a drag king show.
And i went on my own to Bout Time, and just hung out and chatted and flirted with some guys. And around 1.30 am we hooked back up at Bout Time and went and had a late supper/early breakfast at Star Seeds, my favourite 24 hour diner.
Actually, it was a really nice evening, despite it's incredibly late hour. And even though i have hardly got any sleep this weekend, i really feel, mentally at least, very refreshed from this weekend.
Oh, and for some reason, i got a lot of compliments last night for my outfit.
Now, i almost NEVER wear pink.... it's such a cliche for anyone playing gender-fuck with their clothes.
But i just decided that last night, pink was right.
I wore a simple plain, long sleeved mid-pink top, a dark navy layered mini-skirt with tiny pink polka dots, and pink ankle socks. And everyone kept coming up to me all night saying how nice it looked.
Hey, it's nice when someone as old and homely looking as me can get unsolicited compliments from people! I'll take them any day of the week!