After reading John Scalzi’s post on
SWM being the lowest difficulty setting in the game of life, and then reading the 800+ comments, I figured I’d join the crowd who decided to write a response. So I’ve dug up some information for those commenters who seemed to completely lose their minds…
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Ironically, at the SAME TIME that this sort of thing was being preached to us in school, I was attending a school district full of magnet programs whose locations and admissions policies were predicated on the tacit assumption that white families cared more about the quality of their kids' educations. The mother of one of the few black students in my elementary school class had to fight harder than anyone to get her kid into the program because the main reason for the program's existence was to draw white students to high-minority schools.
My mother got called racist for pointing out the hypocrisy there. *headdesk*
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It didn't help that, for all the talk of multiculturalism and the deliberate exposure to different backgrounds, our school was still in southern Indiana, and 96% white. I think with a more integrated setting, the weird "no, no, you're noble and kind and wise, not pissed off! I can't accept this!" would have been diminished.
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I now work at a university that, despite recruitment efforts, is still mostly white. Most of its students are drawn from the surrounding region, and the suburban and rural areas of the region at that (the graduation program lists where all the students are from; lots from Kent and Kirkland and Yakima, almost none from Seattle). I honestly don't think this will change much until the demographics of those areas change (which they are; Bellevue is now more diverse than Seattle, I think). But it's led to peculiar situations like the student ahead of me in the lunch line one day complaining to a friend that if she'd realized that all the black students she'd seen on the college's website were basically all the black students the college had, she might've gone somewhere else. Because race still does impact life experience in this country, of course, and it was hard being around so many people who didn't share hers.
Which is a hell of a lot more self-aware than I was at that age; but at that age, I didn't have to be, you know?
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