I’m not too sure how I missed this -- although the character death warning probably sent me off in the other direction, screaming over the hill to the next country.
But
lavvyan mentioned the body holographic and *crying* and -- what can I say -- I wandered over and...
this is an extremely well written story, builds a realistic world post-Earth, looks at different cultures interacting, broaches how people evolve over time, brings all these elements together into a coherent whole as Rodney progresses through life after spoiler deleted and the ending is both perfect and awful and I have sobbed, practically, throughout the whole thing.
so if you're feeling brave and you want to read a story which deserves a gold star:
the body holographic by Leah and
Springwoof but make sure that you've got tissues
..lots of tissues