signals
furious
If you just want to be friends
be careful in showing selective attention
be direct
don't make up weird excuses to see me (I'll consider that flirtatious.)
don't damn well tell me that you "like men who are honest with their emotions" ("I like my friends to say what they feel" is plenty good, yeah?)
when I say something you think is clever, just laugh. don't say "ooh, I like that."
don't be coy
don't play games with your age (I'll consider that flirtatious.)
don't act all embarrassed after talking about families 'cause "we're not getting married or anything." (Because of course we're not getting married, you don't even like me, right?)
don't spend a lot of time explaining why you like me.
don't hug me until you know me better (seriously, why are you doing that?)
and while we're on that, don't LEAN YOUR HEAD ON MY SHOULDER during the movie, got it?
and don't assume that because I have many female friends, I am only interested in becoming friends.
If you just want to be friends
be careful in showing selective attention
be direct
don't make up weird excuses to see me (I'll consider that flirtatious.)
don't damn well tell me that you "like men who are honest with their emotions" ("I like my friends to say what they feel" is plenty good, yeah?)
when I say something you think is clever, just laugh. don't say "ooh, I like that."
don't be coy
don't play games with your age (I'll consider that flirtatious.)
don't act all embarrassed after talking about families 'cause "we're not getting married or anything." (Because of course we're not getting married, you don't even like me, right?)
don't spend a lot of time explaining why you like me.
don't hug me until you know me better (seriously, why are you doing that?)
and while we're on that, don't LEAN YOUR HEAD ON MY SHOULDER during the movie, got it?
and don't assume that because I have many female friends, I am only interested in becoming friends.