Most annoying

Sep 15, 2005 10:34

Most annoying thing of the week...
When I say "I'm gay." and people laugh.
Ok, yes, I am currently dating a male. This is no way contradicts the fact that I'm bi. Monogamous, Bisexual, and rather ticked off at not being taken seriously. Regardless of who they're dating/have dated, Bisexuals are a legitimate part of the gay community. It's like we're doubly outcast. Last night, I managed to have both a horribly drunk gay guy and two of my straight friends entirely negate my sexuality. Which, by the way, is very dehumanizing. Regardless of who I'm dating, my bisexuality is a sincere and legitimate part of my identity and comes into play in my every day life. It's a fundamental part of who-I-am. To negate my sexuality is to negate myself.
I'm just so tired of fighting for it all the time. It shouldn't have to be this way.
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