I can imagine. Actually, if she's blowing off steam, she's just pissed and making that statement to scare you. If she's serious, there's likely nothing you or anyone else can do to stop her.
I really doubt that she wants to die badly enough to go through with it. Most people don't. If she's got enough presence of mind to bitch back at you the way she did, she'd more clear-headed than she's pretending to be. I think she's looking to hurt people and cause trouble in order to get attention for her own unhappiness. By taking down others, she makes herself feel better. That's the narcissism.
Don't worry about it. Let it go. If she's that well acquainted with mental health issues and depression, then she knows where to go to get help, as well as she knows how to yell at other people to communicate her displeasure. Most of the time, its angry empty threats to let off steam. I'd imagine it was the latter. Most people who want to commit suicide that are really serious about it are despondent, sad, melancholy, feeling like they have no hope left for anything. They just want OUT, relief, the pain to go away. I didn't really sense any of that here, other than her own painful struggles. I used to work a suicide crisis-prevention hotline. Not one person I ever talked to was so pissed that they planned to end their life. Does that make sense? Being pissed is a whole 'nother ball of wax. Someone sad enough to end their life is someone I'd be concerned about. I'm just hearing someone who's angry at the world, doesn't have all the answers, and wants someone to blame besides looking inside for the answers. Its a coping tool a lot of people use, to blame others instead of face their own problems.
Now of course, I have no way to be 100% sure about this, because there's always the exception. But, based on reading her rant, I think she'll be okay. What she needs is to cool off and find another outlet that doesn't involve bitching out people who're only trying to help. That's narcissism talking.
Anyway, hope this helps. So she blocked you??? Wow! Lucky you. You're probably better off not speaking to her anyway, if she's gonna behave like a 10 yr old child having a tantrum because you didn't tell her what she wanted to hear. It wouldn't be the first time in her life something like this has happened, I'll bet you money!
You're right - people who really intend to commit suicide aren't usually ranting and raving right before they do it. I won't worry about her. I wouldn't know if she does anything or not anyway.
Yeah, she wrote that to me and blocked me from replying. I wasn't going to anyway. I just planned on reporting her, which I did. She's definitely not someone I want to talk to or be friends with, so she's not hurting me a bit by blocking me. It's rather childish, I thought.
I really doubt that she wants to die badly enough to go through with it. Most people don't. If she's got enough presence of mind to bitch back at you the way she did, she'd more clear-headed than she's pretending to be. I think she's looking to hurt people and cause trouble in order to get attention for her own unhappiness. By taking down others, she makes herself feel better. That's the narcissism.
Don't worry about it. Let it go. If she's that well acquainted with mental health issues and depression, then she knows where to go to get help, as well as she knows how to yell at other people to communicate her displeasure. Most of the time, its angry empty threats to let off steam. I'd imagine it was the latter. Most people who want to commit suicide that are really serious about it are despondent, sad, melancholy, feeling like they have no hope left for anything. They just want OUT, relief, the pain to go away. I didn't really sense any of that here, other than her own painful struggles. I used to work a suicide crisis-prevention hotline. Not one person I ever talked to was so pissed that they planned to end their life. Does that make sense? Being pissed is a whole 'nother ball of wax. Someone sad enough to end their life is someone I'd be concerned about. I'm just hearing someone who's angry at the world, doesn't have all the answers, and wants someone to blame besides looking inside for the answers. Its a coping tool a lot of people use, to blame others instead of face their own problems.
Now of course, I have no way to be 100% sure about this, because there's always the exception. But, based on reading her rant, I think she'll be okay. What she needs is to cool off and find another outlet that doesn't involve bitching out people who're only trying to help. That's narcissism talking.
Anyway, hope this helps. So she blocked you??? Wow! Lucky you. You're probably better off not speaking to her anyway, if she's gonna behave like a 10 yr old child having a tantrum because you didn't tell her what she wanted to hear. It wouldn't be the first time in her life something like this has happened, I'll bet you money!
Hang in there, bb! :D
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Yeah, she wrote that to me and blocked me from replying. I wasn't going to anyway. I just planned on reporting her, which I did. She's definitely not someone I want to talk to or be friends with, so she's not hurting me a bit by blocking me. It's rather childish, I thought.
Thanks again. I am hanging in there. <333
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