so this isnt about taking sides, or anything. i just dont want you to feel like your the bad guy. cause your not. sometimes you cant help who you fall for. love is crazy like that. he is just upset cause it wasnt him, so he wants to get people on his side to make him feel better. so if people dont want to listen to both sides, then thats their problem, not yours. now usually you ask the friend if its ok to date the girl, but you know what? how could you? you knew he would just freak out like he is now. a good friend, will listen and be there to talk things through. he says he isnt interested in her and its not like you STOLE her while she was still with him. you cant help who you fall for sometimes! why should you pass up on a chance at love or something really great? just cause you dont want to piss someone off? my manager at work told me that her husband and her were in that same situation about dating a friends ex. and now they are married!! if they hadnt taken the chance, they would have never known they were more perfect for each other. a real friend would want you to be happy anyway. just because two people who used to date dont mesh well and dont work out, doesnt have to stop two other people who do connect well from having anything. anyway, hopefully he will come around and a good friendship wont be lost. and if it is, then it wasnt that strong of a friendship. it does suck hes twisting peoples words, and making up stuff that is untrue. soon, people will see through it. i wish you the best mickle and hope things work out and settle down. it just takes time. much love to you. xoxo.
i didnt twist anything, and it just pissed me off that to this day you have not said one word to me about it. you could have at least talked to me about it. i dont want people to hate you, and i dont expect people to, its between us not them.
i dont know if this to heather or me, but if its to me then i did try to talk to you. you just ignored me and it wasnt like you tried to talk to me in person you just posted shit about me in your live journal. how is that keeping it between us if you tell everyone and post it on livejournal.
it was to both of you. when did you ever try to talk to me about it? when did you ever say, hey dude i have feelings for tara? i dont recall you ever doing that. and as for the livejournal thing, i didnt post your name, you replied and thats how people found out. you kept you and her a secret, so nobody knew it was you. look kevin didnt even know it was about you. so i did keep is between us, i didnt give your name casue i didnt want it to be like that.
you know what? people who didnt even know you guys could tell. even when i didnt know mickle or tara personally and would see them, i could even tell that it was bound to happen. EVERYONE knew it was bound to happen. how could you not see it???
ive apologized for what i did and was sincere, what else do you want me do? im sorry i didnt go about the way you wanted me to. im sorry i didnt ask for your permission, but its not like she belongs to you. we live in fucking simi valley everyone is gonna date each other. and i knew how you were gonna react. this is all blown up because of you. everyone knew it was me and tara you were talking about anyways and if they didnt know you wouldve told them when they asked or told them whether they wanted to hear or not. so big deal you left our names out.
we did tell you, maybe not me exactly but it was our decision. and we did end things for you but you were the one who told tara it was okay ill just be weird as friends. then you post your shit making everyone think like we didnt even put your feelings into consideration. when we were doing it under you consent.
ah im so done with this drama that couldve been easily kept between the three of us.
save da drama fo yo mamacali_luvDecember 23 2003, 19:24:34 UTC
LOL that is the funniest thing ive ever heard "its between us not them" i dont know who your refering to either, but if that statement is true...then why are you posting shit on lj and telling everyone? good way of keeping it between the people it concerns. the thing that pisses me off, is that you start shit over NOTHING. over the stupidest things. stop being a drama queen. and stop losing friends over stupid stuff. and stop trying to make the other people look bad just for you to feel better. (the funny thing is that i covered for you when you were a jerk to me. never ever mentioned your name to anyone. cause i would never want anyone to hate you just because you were a jerk to me. but somehow you forget that) i can understand why mickle wouldnt talk things through with you, i mean, if you wouldnt be dramatic about it, you couldve actually talked things over and worked it out. please start listening to people and taking the time to hear what people have to say instead of assuming things.
i am done with all this. this is so much drama over nothing at all. over something so silly. cmon people, high school is over.
Mickle, can i just remind you, that your TRUE friends, will stick with you no matter what. and will always value your friendship. people who hate you just becuase of what theyve heard from someone else, are not your real friends. <3
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we did tell you, maybe not me exactly but it was our decision. and we did end things for you but you were the one who told tara it was okay ill just be weird as friends. then you post your shit making everyone think like we didnt even put your feelings into consideration. when we were doing it under you consent.
ah im so done with this drama that couldve been easily kept between the three of us.
p.s. i accidentally posted as kevin before.
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it just works out funny sometimes
and i would know
p.s. best of luck to both of you. when you find happiness dont let anyone try to bring you down.
-vinh
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i am done with all this. this is so much drama over nothing at all. over something so silly. cmon people, high school is over.
Mickle, can i just remind you, that your TRUE friends, will stick with you no matter what. and will always value your friendship. people who hate you just becuase of what theyve heard from someone else, are not your real friends. <3
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