happiness :)
Well, I've started going to a therapist up in riverchase every week, and man, is it great! The first time i went i was *very* nervous like i normally am when i meet new people, but now when i go in it's just so natural. She's a super cool lady and by the time i'm on my way home i'm smiling the entire way and singing like there's no tomorrow in the car. Absoloutely fabulous.
Today we talked about relationships, and the reason SOME PEOPLE push others away over and over again only to confess their undying love as soon the other person throws up their hands and says "forget it". She said that it happens most often with people my age like opposing forces. While one person is pursuing the other, the pursued just backs away. Once the person gives up, the situations just reverse completely, and it can go on like that for just about ever until one of them finds a more appealing option. How funny, from an objective viewpoint i can totally see that trend in certain relationships.
One of the great ironies of humanity: We all want some one else to care about us and connect with - while at the same time we all want to be our own individual person who needs no one :)
Today we talked about relationships, and the reason SOME PEOPLE push others away over and over again only to confess their undying love as soon the other person throws up their hands and says "forget it". She said that it happens most often with people my age like opposing forces. While one person is pursuing the other, the pursued just backs away. Once the person gives up, the situations just reverse completely, and it can go on like that for just about ever until one of them finds a more appealing option. How funny, from an objective viewpoint i can totally see that trend in certain relationships.
One of the great ironies of humanity: We all want some one else to care about us and connect with - while at the same time we all want to be our own individual person who needs no one :)