Nov 04, 2005 01:15
i don't know what brings this up right now. but i have a new plan for after graduating, i know i still have time and i still have a lot of thinking to do about this. but if nathaniel's still in rochester with the grandparents, i want to move there after college and take on more of the responsibility. let's face it, he's never going to come here while my grandmother is still alive and he's never going to come here if clarence has joint custody. what happens when my grandparents die? does clarennce automatically get custody? how fucked up is that?
does this cut me off from my brother, if i were to go and live in rochester and work there and get an apartment and take care of nathaniel for a couple years while we figure shit out about custody? i don't know if this even makes sense or why it matters right now. but moving there would be so much easier than everything else.