Life long entry sorry

Sep 16, 2006 17:55

So I have been super busy latly. Working full time school full time and little payton.. wow Sleep when I die I guess. Lets see Im working for Life touch Studios. We take year book pictures. I have a on of fun but It is early mornings like 4am early till like 7:30 at night... ouch!Payton is about a half a step from walking.. omg Im so excited but ( Read more... )

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gone_country_tr September 21 2006, 01:54:32 UTC
I'm sorry your going through all this right now.
If I were you I'd threaten to delete the game off the computer. If he doesn't clean up his act and start helping you out and working on your relationship. It's all about compromising, but it seems your the only one who is doing all the compromising.

If the game threat doesn't work...move on with the threat. It'll probably piss him off seeing that he'll lose all his stats and everything he has worked towards but it might make him look at hey it might be better to lose my game then to lose the women I love.

What works for me though, might work for you is pulling him aside. Making him pay attention to you and make him talk to you. I try to do it almost every night with Casey. Normally before we go to bed. We've been pretty much going to bed at the same time together since the very begining. So it probably make's this easier for us. I tend to talk to him about anything that has to do with the relationship to school to people annoying us hence are old roomates.

Money problems. Yeah we have them. Were trying to keep ourselves from arguing about it. I actually installed Microsoft Money on my computer at home. We created a budget together. A list of goals we want to accomplish in the next 6 to 12 months, and a plan to get me out of debt and a plan so he can file bankruptcy because he has about a 100 grand of medical bills.

Also Keeping a budget on the computer lets you know where all your guy's money is going. I wouldn't give up control of your paycheck if you don't want to and let him know how you feel about that. Maybe letting him know every week you give him a certain amount to pay bills with. The rest is for gas and food. The same with whatever he's bringing in.

I wish you all the luck in the world. I hope some of these suggestion's help...........I'll see ya in school,

Tina

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