love vs. infatuation
this is an article from the paper...i think it is something everyone should read!
"Infatuation is fleeting desire -- one set of glands calling to another. It is marked by a feeling of insecurity. You are excited and eager but not genuinely happy. There are naging doubts, unanswered questions, little bits and pieces about the relationship that you would just as soon not examine too closely. It might spoil the dream.
Love is friendship that has caught fire. It takes root and grows, one day at a time. It is quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfection. It gives you strength and grows beyond you to bolster your beloved. You are warmed by his presence, even when he is away. Miles do not seperate you. But near or far, you know that he is yours and you can wait.
Infatuation says, 'We must get married right away. I can't risk losing him.' Love says, 'Be patient. Don't panic. Plan your future with confidence.'
Infatuation has and element of sexual excitement. Whenever you are together, you hope it will end in intimacy. Love is not based on sex. It is the maturation of friendship that makes sex so much sweeter. You must be friends before you can be lovers.
Infatuation lacks confidence. When he's away, you wonder if he's being unfaithful. Sometimes you check.
Love means trust. You are calm, secure and unthreatened. He feels your trust, and it makes him even more trustworthy. Infatuation might lead you to do things you will regret, but love never steers you in the wrong direction.
Love is elevating. It lifts you up. It makes you look up. It makes you better than you were before."
~Ann Landers
Yes...that came from the Ann Landers column. -haha- but read it...and reread it. It makes a lot of sense and a lot of it is true. This is just something that I wanted to share.
byes*
"Infatuation is fleeting desire -- one set of glands calling to another. It is marked by a feeling of insecurity. You are excited and eager but not genuinely happy. There are naging doubts, unanswered questions, little bits and pieces about the relationship that you would just as soon not examine too closely. It might spoil the dream.
Love is friendship that has caught fire. It takes root and grows, one day at a time. It is quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfection. It gives you strength and grows beyond you to bolster your beloved. You are warmed by his presence, even when he is away. Miles do not seperate you. But near or far, you know that he is yours and you can wait.
Infatuation says, 'We must get married right away. I can't risk losing him.' Love says, 'Be patient. Don't panic. Plan your future with confidence.'
Infatuation has and element of sexual excitement. Whenever you are together, you hope it will end in intimacy. Love is not based on sex. It is the maturation of friendship that makes sex so much sweeter. You must be friends before you can be lovers.
Infatuation lacks confidence. When he's away, you wonder if he's being unfaithful. Sometimes you check.
Love means trust. You are calm, secure and unthreatened. He feels your trust, and it makes him even more trustworthy. Infatuation might lead you to do things you will regret, but love never steers you in the wrong direction.
Love is elevating. It lifts you up. It makes you look up. It makes you better than you were before."
~Ann Landers
Yes...that came from the Ann Landers column. -haha- but read it...and reread it. It makes a lot of sense and a lot of it is true. This is just something that I wanted to share.
byes*