love is many a splendored thing...

[jessemg]

this is me telling my lil protege about sex...see? i'm not a bad guy!

despite the rest: has she ever had sex>?
tomandStier: no
tomandStier: i want to take it
despite the rest: oh
despite the rest: well the first time is not a 'fun' time
tomandStier: SHIT
despite the rest: it's a patient i really like you kinda thing
tomandStier: for her
despite the rest: yeah
despite the rest: not fun for her really
tomandStier: it wil be though
despite the rest: more like deep emotional bonding thing for her
tomandStier: 2nd
tomandStier: damn
despite the rest: yeah, if you're calm and patient and nice
tomandStier: i can't handle emotional shit
despite the rest: don't do it if you don't love her, or don't think you will
tomandStier: I HATE IT
tomandStier: dude
tomandStier: seriosly
tomandStier: did you love your girlfriend
despite the rest: still do
despite the rest: i messed up the first time for her, and i'm prolly never going to forgive myself...spare yourself. do what you think is right...but remember that it's more to her, and if she lets you/wants you to...she really cares about you...
tomandStier: you're gay.
despite the rest: kinda