Time goes by too fast...
I've recently discovered how fast time is really going. I cant believe I am in my last semester as a junior...it goes too fast and I'm not sure I like it. Freshman year of high school seems so long ago...even freshman year of college feels like a while back...and time is passing too fast. I love college, I absolutely love the people I've met, I've had some of the best and worst professors, relationships gained and those lost...and I really wouldnt change any of it. I've grown so much as an individual over the last few years. I've learned about myself and others. I've learnd about my limits and how to push myself to strive to be a better person and to be completely happy with myself and my life.
In the last week I have realized one big thing...people grow and people mature...and they deal with situations as they come. But do people really ever change? Their interests change...but the person never really does. I've recently had this conversation with a friend of mine about this persons relationship..or how to approach the situation and I've come up with my own little theory about relationships. Everyone always says "there is someone out there for everyone"...and I think this is true. But I think its true to the extent that there is a person out there for everyone that is perfect for the other person from the moment they meet them. I've seen time and time again people trying to change the other person in the relationship to fit the mold of who they see themselves with but it shouldnt happen like that. You should never change for anyone and a relationship shouldnt be about trying to change someone..it should be about being with them because of who they are.
Then my other point is people who always feel they have to be in a relationship..be a little independent! Why do people feel they always have to have a guy (or girl) in order to be happy...because its just not true. If this is the case then you need to learn to be happy with yourself before you can be happy with someone else.
Anyways, another pointless rant by me...I've learnd to listen to the people closest to me...if you dont do that then you should try it sometime..because 99% of the time they are prolly right. And I couldnt be more thankful for those people in my life.
In the last week I have realized one big thing...people grow and people mature...and they deal with situations as they come. But do people really ever change? Their interests change...but the person never really does. I've recently had this conversation with a friend of mine about this persons relationship..or how to approach the situation and I've come up with my own little theory about relationships. Everyone always says "there is someone out there for everyone"...and I think this is true. But I think its true to the extent that there is a person out there for everyone that is perfect for the other person from the moment they meet them. I've seen time and time again people trying to change the other person in the relationship to fit the mold of who they see themselves with but it shouldnt happen like that. You should never change for anyone and a relationship shouldnt be about trying to change someone..it should be about being with them because of who they are.
Then my other point is people who always feel they have to be in a relationship..be a little independent! Why do people feel they always have to have a guy (or girl) in order to be happy...because its just not true. If this is the case then you need to learn to be happy with yourself before you can be happy with someone else.
Anyways, another pointless rant by me...I've learnd to listen to the people closest to me...if you dont do that then you should try it sometime..because 99% of the time they are prolly right. And I couldnt be more thankful for those people in my life.