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As far as the people I make/stay friends with.. I'm pretty shallow. Not in just a physical sense.. but I need to feel like you're really adding something positive to my life. Being attractive helps, but I need my friends to be smart, funny, witty (a combination of smart & funny), talented, confident (but NOT narcissistic), & NONE of these things: insecure, dramatic, rude, insensitive, naive, ignorant, dirty, slutty, flakey or belligerent.
I'm sure there are other things I could add but that's off the top of my head. I've been thinking about friendships lately.. especially with my wedding coming up & trying to decide who I want to invite & who I feel is special enough in my life to be a bridesmaid.
I'm a firm believer in not holding grudges but if I believe that someone who has done me wrong is ALSO a waste of time as far as trying to make a friendship work, then I won't have anything to do with them. If I have no desire to make an effort with you, then why should we talk?
I guess that's all.
I'm sure there are other things I could add but that's off the top of my head. I've been thinking about friendships lately.. especially with my wedding coming up & trying to decide who I want to invite & who I feel is special enough in my life to be a bridesmaid.
I'm a firm believer in not holding grudges but if I believe that someone who has done me wrong is ALSO a waste of time as far as trying to make a friendship work, then I won't have anything to do with them. If I have no desire to make an effort with you, then why should we talk?
I guess that's all.