just to vent
my mom is hell bent on trying to potty train Aleck. But her approach is to humiliate him or make him feel badx if he has an accident. Telling him "Daddy is going to be so mad at you if you go potty in your pants" or telling him "Papa is going to be sad if you go in your pants". Dave and I have discussed our approach to potty training, and we have decided not to pressure him and to not belittle him. We want to usr positive reinforment. I don't think it's the time to potty train while she's here, it's just an added stress. boy on boy did I choose the wrong time to quit smoking.