Sad to say, the easiest way to get your blog noticed nowadays is to say something crazy and hope it generates traffic. If you take even a quick glance over her other columns, she's been trying really hard to generate a controversy, but has generally been ignored... she's maxed out at 60-ish comments (her post on dogging, which I'm sure she thought would be a success, got no comments). Her no-fatties post got over 1500 comments. Success!
Always consider the source. She's in her mid-30s, she's "working on a novel," she says she's used to be anorexic (which is why she's an expert on weight loss), and claims she's never been in love. So why does anyone care what she thinks? The best thing result (in my mind) would be if everybody just ignored her as a troll and moved on.
People have all kinds of rational and irrational biases. While it isn't impossible to change someone's mind, it is a horrific amount of work. I honestly believe the best thing to do is ignore them UNLESS you heard somebody say this sort of thing in public: then I might break out the sarcasm.
As far as the medical thing goes, I've divined that the only way you can get good health care is if you're in the health care industry on the care giver end. For everybody else, it is essentially Russian Roulette. I know someone who had a horrific, chronic condition that wasn't resolved until he lucked into a doctor who could actually read his scans, and he had the most expensive insurance you could get, and was seeing docs at a top hospital, and the docs that missed the cause of his condition were world-famous experts in the field.
According to the doctors I know, the key is to be really annoyingly persistent. It helps if you can also speak doctor, but not so much that it sounds like you're a hypochondriac.
I admit to often pretending I don't know medical terms and the chemical names for medications. They get very suspicious of ANYTHING. It doesn't matter that my father teaches med school and I have picked up terminology over the years, the fact that I know any terminology is apparently grounds for dismissal. Blarg.
And, hey! I'm in my mid-thirties and working on a novel, and I am awesome! Hee! ;)
Always consider the source. She's in her mid-30s, she's "working on a novel," she says she's used to be anorexic (which is why she's an expert on weight loss), and claims she's never been in love. So why does anyone care what she thinks? The best thing result (in my mind) would be if everybody just ignored her as a troll and moved on.
People have all kinds of rational and irrational biases. While it isn't impossible to change someone's mind, it is a horrific amount of work. I honestly believe the best thing to do is ignore them UNLESS you heard somebody say this sort of thing in public: then I might break out the sarcasm.
As far as the medical thing goes, I've divined that the only way you can get good health care is if you're in the health care industry on the care giver end. For everybody else, it is essentially Russian Roulette. I know someone who had a horrific, chronic condition that wasn't resolved until he lucked into a doctor who could actually read his scans, and he had the most expensive insurance you could get, and was seeing docs at a top hospital, and the docs that missed the cause of his condition were world-famous experts in the field.
According to the doctors I know, the key is to be really annoyingly persistent. It helps if you can also speak doctor, but not so much that it sounds like you're a hypochondriac.
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And, hey! I'm in my mid-thirties and working on a novel, and I am awesome! Hee! ;)
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