[note to self]Some men don’t have the vocabulary to describe emotions clearly.
Here’s an analogy. My wife can easily distinguish between sea mist, pea and grass green paint. To me they are all just light green. Olive and forest green are dark green to me. I recognize the various shades, but I don’t have different names for them.
So maybe the girlfriend is saying “sea mist” and the boyfriend is saying “light green.” They both might mean the same thing, or not, but the boyfriend can’t explain it any better. He literally doesn’t have the vocabulary to describe it any better.
Working on It