May 01, 2005 09:27
Ok, so I'll try posting more. Yesterday was pretty much a total bust. Paperinfire opted to continue her kick on indicating to me that she "needs her space" by pretty much spending the entire day doing practically everything without even asking me if I wanted to go wherever she was going or spend time with her. We USED to do practically everything together until, for whatever reason, she decided that I was always up her butt and she "needed her space." She's getting her space and now she complains about it. I guess it's, "Do stuff with me if and when I say we should do stuff." So it's basically her dictating when and what we should do and everything else she's going to omit herself from. Lovely way to conduct a relationship. I also find it highly irritating that everytime we have a problem in our relationship, she opts to post about it in her livejournal so all of her friends can get a wonderful picture of me, yet she always omits the 99% of the time that I do great superb things and she's telling me I'm the best boyfriend in the world. Case in point. Her friend Gina (an Aquarius like Amy) was just dumped by her boyfriend (a Cancer like me) who opted to start seeing 3 women and totally start trashing his girlfriend. Great, upstanding guy there. So she comes to me and is acting all gushy and telling me that I'm the best boyfriend in the world. And she pretty much spends the entire day doting on me and telling me how lucky I am. But nobody in Livejournal land would ever know it. And you certainly wouldn't know about the things I've done in the past for her that have really gone above and beyond the call of duty. I think I try REALLY hard for this girl and I don't mind that I really don't get so much credit for it, but it really pisses me off that those things go by the wayside while every other thing that irritates her is cast in bright, blinking neon and put on display for all to read.