Long time? I'm confused
So I'm trying to decide whether this guy I'm seeing actually likes me or if it's purely physical.
Should I be skeptical? Should i even wonder or let it be? I'm curious because I really like him. He's really busy and he makes time for me..occasionally. We can talk without it being too awkward. I've been seeing him for a while now..a couple months...longer than most flings?
However, usually, not always but usually, I initiate contact. Either texting, emailing, iming, it's usually me, but to his credit, he DOES initiate it occasionally. I just get insecure sometimes with him because I like him so much and have no idea if he likes me.
Then we get to body language. That's hard to read. I can't tell at all the difference between lusty interest and emotional interest based on body language. If he makes out with me the second he sees me is he horny or did he miss me? That probably cannot be answered by anyone but him.
I feel stupid contemplating this..but it's on my mind. It's hard not to think about it. I'm crazy about him...he's probably ambivalent about me...maybe? I'm going to milk it for all it's worth and try not to let my feelings get in the way.
Should I be skeptical? Should i even wonder or let it be? I'm curious because I really like him. He's really busy and he makes time for me..occasionally. We can talk without it being too awkward. I've been seeing him for a while now..a couple months...longer than most flings?
However, usually, not always but usually, I initiate contact. Either texting, emailing, iming, it's usually me, but to his credit, he DOES initiate it occasionally. I just get insecure sometimes with him because I like him so much and have no idea if he likes me.
Then we get to body language. That's hard to read. I can't tell at all the difference between lusty interest and emotional interest based on body language. If he makes out with me the second he sees me is he horny or did he miss me? That probably cannot be answered by anyone but him.
I feel stupid contemplating this..but it's on my mind. It's hard not to think about it. I'm crazy about him...he's probably ambivalent about me...maybe? I'm going to milk it for all it's worth and try not to let my feelings get in the way.