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I'm going to vent.
I know this girl.
She's a friend of mine. Sort of.
And she's seeing a married man.
Not only is she seeing a married man. It's been set up by her Dom and she's supposed to see another guy as well, maybe two. So it's this whole network of knowledge of this twenty year old girl seeing this thirty something year old man who has a fucking wife and kids.
This guy says he isn't getting what he wants from his wife.
So he's going to cheat on her in their own damn bed while she and the kids are gone for the weekend.
And this girl is telling me "Yeah, I might get a job babysitting his kids."
He's going to have her around his children.
So she's gonna be there around his kids and she's gonna be fucking him right under his wife's nose.
I can't handle cheating.
I have this theory about marriage. When you say "I do" you're making a promise to be with that person and only that person (unless there is a previously decided poly stance). If you're not happy, try to work it out, if that doesn't work, get a divorce... but bringing a girl in who is going to be around your kids and fuck you under your wife's nose isn't a good idea. It's bullshit. Fucking bullshit.
This girl is going to tear that family apart. I can't even. Oh my god.
And she's asking me "Will you still love me if I'm a whore?" and saying "You don't love me anymore because I'm a whore."
I'm just so disappointed in her as a human that she would do this. I wonder if his wife and kids even cross her mind when she's fucking him in his house, in his and his wife's bed. When she sees their pictures on the walls. I wonder if she even understands what will happen if his wife finds out, how it could break this family... I don't understand. I hear her talk about it and I'm thinking "I don't want to hear this. This is wrong." I'm just... I don't know. Everyone says "Don't judge anyone else's stuff" in the kink, but this isn't even a matter of it being a kink. It's about a selfish college girl who wants to fuck everything with a pulse fucking a married man in his house. Spending nights with him in the bed he shares with his wife. Watching his kids, inserting herself into their fucking lives.
I just needed to bitch about it.
/vent