* want to talk with someone at the end of a busy day * have an immediate answer for a question * want to invite friends over on Friday night * are comfortable repeating something already said by someone else * need and like to hear that others love you and like your work * start to invite a few friends for dinner and realize you've invited the entire neighborhood * find yourself telling your introverted child to get out of her room and call a few friends * solve a problem by talking through the solution with someone else * feel comfortable initiating a conversation * call for the babysitter * are comfortable revealing personal things about yourself * leave a party chastising yourself for talking too much and not listening * enjoy and need to interact with other people and feel exhausted when you have spent too much time alone or only with young children * immediately share a new idea or experience with someone and find joy and energy in the telling
If you are an introvert you probably
* sit down with the newspaper or in front of the TV after a hard day * will do anything, even clean the toilets, if someone else will agree to call the sitter * can't imagine wanting to invite a group over on friday night * find being in a large group for an extended periodof time exhausting * share personal information only with those who are very close to you * think before answering a question * frequently have extroverts ask you the same question twice because they interpret your pause to think as ignoring the question * prefer dinner with family or one special friend * find yourself hiding in the bathroom or back bedroom at large family gatherings * solve a problem by thinking it through yourself before ever talking about it with anyone else * get tired of telling extroverts what a wonderful job their doing and how much you love and appreciate them