1. Strangly, the most important factor that I've been looking for lately is: Can/does she feel as strongly about me as I can/do feel about her? I don't know what word I could use... empathy? I don't want to be rebound guy, or there just for amusment. I want to be cared about in return for caring.
2. Attractiveness... now, I use this word initially in the same aspect as others, but understand, a person can be physically attractive and yet not come off as attractive (as in, when a girl has a cigerette in her mouth... minus 30 points). So I guess I also mean presentation.
3. THE MIND. Intellegence/creativity/humor... often they are intertwined.
4. Self respect. I don't want to here about how a girl thinks she's too something, or about how she's not good enough, or again we bring up smoking, as well as slutiness... turn offs.
5. Honesty. I don't necessarily need the whole story right off the bat, but I don't want a girl to lie to me.
Wow, I went more in-depth than I thought I would. Those are just the main things. God knows I'll probably end up marrying an anorexic retard pathological liar who hates herself and me.
2. Attractiveness... now, I use this word initially in the same aspect as others, but understand, a person can be physically attractive and yet not come off as attractive (as in, when a girl has a cigerette in her mouth... minus 30 points). So I guess I also mean presentation.
3. THE MIND. Intellegence/creativity/humor... often they are intertwined.
4. Self respect. I don't want to here about how a girl thinks she's too something, or about how she's not good enough, or again we bring up smoking, as well as slutiness... turn offs.
5. Honesty. I don't necessarily need the whole story right off the bat, but I don't want a girl to lie to me.
Wow, I went more in-depth than I thought I would.
Those are just the main things. God knows I'll probably end up marrying an anorexic retard pathological liar who hates herself and me.
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