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Ok, I have a slight dilemma (don't we all. lol.). I like someone who I've liked for 3 years or so and they have liked me since then too. We have told each other this about a month ago, but we have pretty much just been friends since then and we haven't really made any advances, which I'm totally fine with. But lately, she's been talking to this other guy who she also likes, and she has done nothing but talk about him, talk about the plans that they are making to see each other, and about all the things that he says. I've told her that I am totally fine with it, but I am really crushing inside. She sent me some of the E-Mails that he wrote her, and they are the sweetest thing I have ever read, which puts me way down low. Supposedly, we are supposed to be really comfortable with each other, but she seems to be a lot more comfortable with him. She asked him to the dance, he's coming over on Sunday to help her with her car, and it just really hurts to know that she hasn't even asked me any of those things or even make any kind of effort to advance us at all. I know this sounds really selfish, and I probably am being selfish, but this is just how I feel and I can't help how I feel. She is totally oblivious to how I feel, what should I do? Should I tell her? Help me please...... Bye!