Big news
I don't ever post in LiveJournal anymore unless I have really big news.
Well here is my news.
Anna Offerman, my fiance for almost two years and I are no longer engaged. Not only are we no longer engaged, we are also breaking up. I am deeply sorry to my friends who I had asked to be my groomsmen. It is unfortunate that I no longer need your help.
For the last several months, Anna and I have been becoming distant. It seems as though whenever we spent time with each other, there was always an awkward silence. We've also noticed that over the past couple of years that we wanted different goals in life. We both have been rather unhappy for quite a while, and it took this weekend at Arisia with the Teseractes for us to realize that it is possible for us to be happy again, but unfortunately not with each other.
We have agreed that for the time being, she should be active in RKO, and I should be active with Teseractes. This means that I will reserve myself from attending RKO shows and events, as she will reserve from attending Teseractes. We have always been close friends, and we will need some indefinite time totally apart to heal so that one day we can be as close friends as we once were.
One more detail remains, and that is that I now need a place to live. Unquestioningly, we feel that it is better that Anna keeps our current home, and I try to find some other arrangements.
I feel more depressed than I ever have, and I can really use some friends now... More than ever...
Well here is my news.
Anna Offerman, my fiance for almost two years and I are no longer engaged. Not only are we no longer engaged, we are also breaking up. I am deeply sorry to my friends who I had asked to be my groomsmen. It is unfortunate that I no longer need your help.
For the last several months, Anna and I have been becoming distant. It seems as though whenever we spent time with each other, there was always an awkward silence. We've also noticed that over the past couple of years that we wanted different goals in life. We both have been rather unhappy for quite a while, and it took this weekend at Arisia with the Teseractes for us to realize that it is possible for us to be happy again, but unfortunately not with each other.
We have agreed that for the time being, she should be active in RKO, and I should be active with Teseractes. This means that I will reserve myself from attending RKO shows and events, as she will reserve from attending Teseractes. We have always been close friends, and we will need some indefinite time totally apart to heal so that one day we can be as close friends as we once were.
One more detail remains, and that is that I now need a place to live. Unquestioningly, we feel that it is better that Anna keeps our current home, and I try to find some other arrangements.
I feel more depressed than I ever have, and I can really use some friends now... More than ever...