Jan 10, 2007 00:47
i'm pretty sure i've done this on myspace, but due to current events, i felt very thoughtful about it this go around. so yes, this will be a sappy, deep thinking kind of survey with answers i did think about. and yes, it was kinda tough to get through
1.Would you kiss the last person you kissed, again?
yes. will I get the chance to? probably not
2. How many girlfriends/ boyfriends have told you they love you?
1...i never found out if he really meant it
3. Have you ever thought that you were going to marry a person?
no. but i have thought about being with them through high school and probably college
4. Have you ever made a boyfriend or girlfriend cry?
one because i broke up with him. any others i don't know about
5. Are you happier single or in a relationship?
honestly, relationship. i'm the kind of person who likes to know that someone cares for them. yes friends do that, but to know that there is one person who thinks about you is a feeling that helps me get by.
6.Have you ever been cheated on?
don't know
7.Have you ever told someone you loved them and didn't mean it? no.
8. Have you ever had your heart broken?
too many times. but each time helped me. i saw how the relationship changed me and it helped me focus on what's important
9. Talk to any of your exes?
yes. i'm friends with quite a few of them. the most recent one is still in an awkward stage, but we're getting back to the friend stage.
10. If you could go back in time and change things, would you?
oh god...yes. that wish has haunted me so much this past week it's not even funny. i know eventually i'll forget about it all but right now i keep thinking of what i should have said or done or not done. it's driving me mad.
11.Think any of your exes feel the same?
i think one used to. but we've talked, we're friends, and he's one of my closest confidants
12. Do you believe that you are a good boyfriend or girlfriend?
i'm getting there. i know i have things to work on, like opening up to people. I just love to please people and be a servant if that means listening to them, suprising them at work, o rjust being there for them.
13. Have you dated people who were not good to you?
no. i've been pretty good in my choice of guys
14. Have you been in an abusive relationship?
no
16. Have you dated someone older than you?
not by more than a year
17. Younger?
no...all the guys i've dated are close to my age (as in less than a year)
18.Do you believe everyone deserves a second chance?
it depends on teh situation. Like my most recent ex. we slpit last september but i took him back because the reason for the slpit was stupid. now we broke up again and i don't kow if he's worth a second chance. he's a great guy, and part of me would take him back in an instant, but i also think that if he's going to leave everytime things get tough, then no he doesn't deserve a second try.
19. Do you believe in love at first sight?
i believe in lust at first sight. love takes time
20. Ever been given an engagement ring?
no
21.Ever been given a promise ring?
no. i don't think people need a ring to show or remind them of that promise.
22. Do you want to get married?
yes...but not for a while
23. Has anyone ever told you they wanted to marry you?
haha...i htink i'm engaged to about 10 people right now.
24. Ever liked someone else's boyfriend or girlfriend?
yes. but i know a friendship is worth more than playing games to get a guy
25. Does heartbreak really feel as bad as it sounds??
so much more. it's something that hits you like a ton of bricks, then just when you think you've shaken it off, it comes back again and haunts you, for a long time. you think you've learned how to handle it but it's the same feeling each time, an ache that stays to remind you of what happened.