on balance and growth

Aug 12, 2009 10:05

Remember that unbalanced force is evil; that unbalanced severity is but cruelty and oppression; but that also unbalanced mercy is but weakness which would allow and abet Evil. Act passionately; think rationally; be Thyself.

Liber Librae

It seems a common thread, especially amongst gay men, including Crowley, to aspire to "manliness" There are a number of indicators of this manly virtue, but I think two that I need to work on right now are

1.) to be able to gracefully give and receive an honest compliment.

2.) to be able to gracefully give and receive honest criticism.

If I can not only do these two, but do both without implying a one sided nature to anyone, indicating that I am down to partisanship and a complete opposition or a complete acceptance of a party line, then I think I've advanced pretty far from where I've started. I'm working on it.

-- James
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