It's been a while, so to prevent anyone from going into shock, I'll be brief...

[jazzvandoren]

My acquantance Carmen dropped me a line the other day. Carmen - for those who don't know - is the hot little Cuban chick that I saw for about a month back in Miami (circa December 2002). She's the one who ended up having a crush on Chris (my roommate) and left me for him. Chris is also the one who two and a half years later stole our buddy Brian

Comments

[lea724]

At what point does a person decide to cast fate to the wind, say screw the consequences - be it lost friendships, broken hearts, or a happily ever after ending - and finally put your own desire for happiness in front of your sense of morals and ethics?

Within reason, I think you should always put your own desire for happiness above all else.

[jazzvandoren]

But what about when it potentially will impose on someone else's happiness?

[lea724]

I guess the key word is "potentially." It's hard to give a good opinion about what you should do when I know so little of the facts. Care to share? :)

[jazzvandoren]

Not on LJ, given that ALL of the parties who are in anyway involved in the innermost part of the problem, are also on LJ. But yeah, I'd love to have someone to talk to about it...

[lea724]

E-mail? IM? Pick your poison.

[jazzvandoren]

I replied to it, then wanted to edit the reply - and saw no option for it, so I deleted it. I'm sure the original is still in your email box. I just didn't want to have all of it public.

[lea724]

Yep, I did get the reply in my In box. If you say you want to chat via IM, then I'll make a point of going online. Otherwise, yeah, I'm rarely on.