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tonight, a friend of mine came up to me as I was leaving the bar and said "Do with this information what you will, but I want you."
Now, I do like this girl. She's very cool, fun to hang out with, all those things that make a friend a friend. But, I'm not attracted to her. I was very flattered that someone would think enough of me to do something like that, but it's not something I'm terribly interested in. I told her that, for someone as cool as her to say/feel that to/towards me (I forget exactly what I said) was very awesome, but I must apologize. I gave a her a big hug and a kiss on the forehead and left it at that.
I think I did the right thing, but I've never felt like such an asshole.
Was that ok? I gave her a hug, told her I was flattered but sorry, was that ok? I guess I feel like a dick cause, even though she's really cool, I'm just not physically attracted to her, so I had to let her down.
God, I'm really inexperienced with this. I'm usually the one on the receiving end of the let down, and it's not something I'd ever want to do to anyone else, but... it has to be done, right?
...
Right?
Now, I do like this girl. She's very cool, fun to hang out with, all those things that make a friend a friend. But, I'm not attracted to her. I was very flattered that someone would think enough of me to do something like that, but it's not something I'm terribly interested in. I told her that, for someone as cool as her to say/feel that to/towards me (I forget exactly what I said) was very awesome, but I must apologize. I gave a her a big hug and a kiss on the forehead and left it at that.
I think I did the right thing, but I've never felt like such an asshole.
Was that ok? I gave her a hug, told her I was flattered but sorry, was that ok? I guess I feel like a dick cause, even though she's really cool, I'm just not physically attracted to her, so I had to let her down.
God, I'm really inexperienced with this. I'm usually the one on the receiving end of the let down, and it's not something I'd ever want to do to anyone else, but... it has to be done, right?
...
Right?