Sep 16, 2005 12:09
I needed a good laugh today. I just love my morning show. I’ve only been to a handful of other cities but I’ve always felt that our morning show could compete with any. The personalities on that show are just hilarious. But you either love them or hate them. I just happen to love them. Buzz can get quite obnoxious at times, but you have to realize that some of that is role playing and done in fun. I would link it but they haven’t broadcasted on internet for some time now. This morning they had the Untamed Shrews. They are in town for the weekend to do a show at the Comic Strip. Wish I could go to see them but we have a busy weekend.
This morning they were talking about this 19 yr old kid that made a tape for his girlfriend who turns around and dumps this poor kid the day after she receives the tape then turns around and posts the clip on the internet. That is messed up but you just have to hear the clip though. Go to www.klaq.com and go to Buzz and Theresa, and click on the 6 month anniversary song. That is so pathetic. *you can just hear Mr. T saying* I pitty the fool. But in the spirit of honesty, I once was like that but not as bad, I think. I think everyone probably has to go through it to really understand that no one likes to be stalked or clingy. Maybe I’ll share that experience sometime in the future…Friends only of course. Note to the younglings: no one likes a clingy/needy boyfriend or girlfriend. People like to feel loved, needed or maybe even wanted but not stalked. If you get dumped, as hard as it is, just move on. Don't call the person every 5 minutes begging them back or dont try to find out why "just tell me why, for Pete's sake WHY!". Get out with your friends and meet new people. The sooner you start getting out again, the sooner the healing process can begin. Don't follow or harass your ex. Let it go. Trust me, I know from experience… Let’s just leave at that for now.
So this morning, my wife was pissed off at me and was giving me the silent treatment. For the past year or so, I haven’t been as forth coming as I use to be. I would tell her just about everything, but our relationship has been suffering. Just recently, we have been doing a lot better and since that was the case, I thought that I needed to take another step and be more open with her and try harder to make this work. Yesterday, my wife was out at school and after I fed the girls, helped with homework and put them to bed, I decided to play some online pool. The past couple of days I’ve become addicted to it. You can meet some interesting people there but you got to be very careful because some of them are just kids. So as I was playing, I met two different people and the conversation got interesting, in an innocent and friendly way. I really enjoyed conversing with these people so when my wife got home she asked me how my day went and I thought, what they heck, I need to try to trust her and start being more open and honest about things again so I told her. I didn’t even get to the second sentence when she just rolled over and went to sleep. WT… Nothing happened! We talked about religion and sports and stuff like that! It’s not like I told them my life story or if I was shopping around; quite the contrary. I hardly have any friends. I have volleyball/basketball friends my wife’s friends and Becky and that is about it. I don’t go out and drink, I feel guilty if I go to a football game without her, and I don’t just hang out with other guys because most of the guys I know are divorced or single and that combination can be deadly at times. It’s hard to find couples that are still married or even together who have kids, to hang out with. I like to talk about current events and find out what people think about things. What is so wrong with talking with some people online while playing pool? She’s always been a jealous person but come on! Seriously, was I in the wrong here? Anyone? Well, I’m going to lay off the online pool for a while, besides I should be studying for Monday.