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[jarethrake]

To clarify, something I was ranting about yesterday, it's not so much inexperience itself that I object to.  It's standing there and going "so now what do I do?".  Fucks sake, just try something, I don't want to have to be the director of my own love scenes.  If I wanted that, I'd just masturbate.  If it doesn't work, okay, we'll just do something

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Honest

[fiat_knox]

Thank you for sharing this post, and your previous one - which I re-read in the light of this post.

I wish there was something cogent and reassuring I could say, but really your experiences are beyond my ken. I can only sit back in mute horror sometimes, at the things you have to put up with.

We do have one thing in common. We both like to listen. So maybe some day, likely later rather than sooner, when I'm down in Birmingham, we'll meet during the day some time and you can listen to me rattle on about stuff, if you wish to be the one who listens.

I've found that even if that's all I get out of meeting someone, it's better than not meeting anybody at all. And that's reason enough for me to continue patrolling wherever I go.

Re: Honest

[jarethrake]

You don't have to find anything to say - I write these things for my benefit.;p

Things always seem worse when they're bottled up inside. Im my experience, nothing's ever quite so bad once it's out there. Once you can talk about it, there will come a point where you can laugh about it.

Re: Honest

[fiat_knox]

Oh, I laugh about everything in my life. Often in public, for no apparent external reason.

But holy shit you surely put up with some craptastic things. I'm surprised you haven't yet just picked up a meat cleaver and started hacking away left and right.

Re: Honest

[jarethrake]

There comes a point where things get so bad they just become funny.

And, when I'm angry, I tend to throw cuddly toys at people.

[bosbullterrier]

Damn. If those boys can't figure that out, get out of the room. ;)