game of thrones 3x03 - the walk of punishment

[janie_tangerine]

(yay I'm doing good at this yes)

Under the cut: book spoilers (also for ADWD) and endless Tully fangirling. Also: if you like Talisa, don't like Jaime and don't like Theon don't bother, thanks so very much. Also: I'm discussing non consensual sexual situations related matters so thread carefully.

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[janie_tangerine]

Me too :/ I think that having him disappear would have been a stupid move because that stuff doesn't work on TV and especially for a character that 80% of the audience doesn't like, so they had to keep him in, but ffjkhgkdj I don't want to see him suffer, also because I suspect that what we've seen until now was nothing in comparison to what's in store DDDD: and from what we know it doesn't seem to me that they're going overboard - shit I doubt they *could* go overboard since just seeing the result of the torturing in the book was beyond gross, anything goes by this point. Ew. And yeah I totally share the same worries about that conversation - like, obviously Theon trusts him by now and he's like the *only* supposed friend he has at the moment not to mention that he's in some seriously bad emotional state. So he'll probably go spill everything very emotionally and Ramsay is TOTALLY going to use that against him later (.... ;__;) and considering that from what I gathered we find out that Ramsay is Ramsay next episode HE'S ALSO GOING TO HAVE TO FIND OUT THAT HE HAD BEEN TOYED WITH ALL ALONG AND UGGGHHHHHHHHHHHH NOPE. I. CAN'T. JUST. NO. ;___; (I'm also 100% positive that the finale will have Ramsay telling him about the RW and I'll pretty much kill myself at that point, but that's another thing entirely X:X)

And yeah hopefully AT LEAST THAT? Since some people still did-not-get-it maybe it could be like the last chance they have to realize that he didn't really mean to do all of that? D: and yeah that too - ugh on tumblr it's already starting with the people who are like 'omg the cute dude from Misfits saved Theon AWWW I SHIP IT' and I'm already starting to cringe, so at least it's gonna hopefully die soon? Like, if people ship it for what it is and knowing the books good for them as long as I don't ever have to see it, but when they don't know it's... just... ew. *cringes*

BUT JAIME AND BRIENNE ;)

[the_crazy_freak]

I actually think you're right and what we've seen up 'till now is nothing. :SS Because if you think about it, none of the things we read in the Reek chapters have actually happened yet (like flaying his fingers until he begs him to cut them off). DD: I think that's probably because they want to show Ramsay himself doing those things (and not his subordinates). I feel like they truly tortured Theon purely for the purpose of extracting information from him, whereas Ramsay will do it for his own pleasure (because he's going to HAVE all the info anyways, since Theon will tell him before he reveals his true self). So yeah, I'm pretty sure the TRULY gruesome stuff hasn't even started yet (and I couldn't even bear to look at the torture we already got - not sure I'm gonna be able to deal with what's coming). :S

Yes, that's exactly what I was afraid of. God, I need to brace myself for the next episode. ;__; It's going to be very emotionally unstable for me. I feel like that might actually be the very last scene in the last episode - the reveal of Ramsay. Because the audience is gonna be like "omg, no fucking way :OO" - in a total state of shock. And you know GoT loves to leave the audience in a state of shock (like they did with Jaime's hand this week).

Omg, I haven't even thought about the RW in context with Theon. Oh god... ;____; nope

Oh god, I didn't really venture into the part of tumblr that ships them yet. But, I mean, I can totally see it (for the people who only watch the show and don't read spoilers). They think he's a nice guy and he helped him, so of course some people will be like "omg, I ship it". Now that I think about it (and this painful for me to admit), if I hadn't read the books and didn't know who Ramsay was, I might be like "oh, he's sweet" too (and since I always kinda liked Theon anyway, he'd probably immediately be in my good books for helping him). All I can say is - thank god I read the books, because I wouldn't want to be one of those people who think the guy is great (and even ship him with Theon), only to find out that he's far from that (quite the opposite). ugh
But do people who have read the books really ship Theon/Ramsay though? O_o

[janie_tangerine]

On one side I doubt they'll be going as far as it went in the book - seriously, you can't ask a 27 year-old guy to pull a De Niro on everyone and starve himself until he looks like a sixty year old dude - but on the other we won't get spared any grossness I fear. D: (also because if they were willing to show the almost-rape then they'll most definitely be willing to show it if it happens with Ramsay, and since I'm the first person saying that I'm 99% sure it was a thing in the book I can't even complain. Sigh. Let's not get into the flaying part....) And yeah exactly I'm not even sure Ramsay ever gave a shit about the info in the first place anyway - he was probably just overjoyed to have someone to dump all his sadism on. Also someone who was already fucked up in the first place. Ew. And yeah I'm already this ready do be done now, THERE'S NOTHING ELSE I NEED TO SEE UUGGGHHHH.

Yeah knowing them I can bet money it's going to be the last scene. Damn, this almost makes me look forward to Jaime having to vomit the horse piss because at least that part gets better... DDD: and hahah. My personal headcanon is that Theon had the full mental breakdown when he was told about the RW so FIGURE HOW HAPPY I'LL BE IF I FIND OUT THAT D&D HAVE THE SAME HEADCANON AS I DO. ... the problem is that until now it seems like we're mostly agreeing.........

I only see what happens on the Theon tag and I have like five filters for anything that might show me Ramsay's name so I'm usually pretty covered, but when they don't mention the name because they don't know it yet and they're all like 'omg how cute' I just cringe in secondhand embarrassment. If I hadn't known before I'd probably be on it too but SINCE I KNOW I'M JUST CRINGING because if I fell for it I'd be backpedaling like crazy come next week.

Aaand uhm. Yeah. Most of them/the ones who usually properly tag it (from what I gather - I know a couple because they do an exchange fic that I do as well even if we rarely cross paths because of obvious different interests in shipping XDDD) are into it because of the dirtybadwrong so at least it's not romantic shipping aaand while I don't really get it and never will (I mean, the most dirtybadwrong thing I ship in asoiaf is Sandor/Sansa so what do I know) as long as I don't have to see it their business. But once, before I knew tumblr savior existed, I actually read someone saying that they were fascinated by the relationship and the dynamic (... okay until now) and that well obviously 'THEON WASN'T INTO IT AT THE BEGINNING BUT THEN HE REALIZES IT WAS THE KIND OF RELATIONSHIP HE NEEDED' and I think I had a moment of 'I can't list all the ways in which this is really fucking wrong' DDD: like seriously what the hell. :/

[the_crazy_freak]

I was just discussing this with a friend the other day and we pretty much agree with that. I don't think they'll make him wear a grey wig or make him lose any weight or anything (I don't even think they'll make Theon lose any of his teeth, let alone most of them). But honestly, that is one deviation from the book I'm more than fine with. It's bad enough that they'll probably show the finger chopping, etc. :SSS
I may have worded it wrong. I don't think Ramsay ever cared about the info, either. I think his subordinates/servants (the ones who were doing the torturing) were TOLD by Ramsay that they're doing it for info (and so they themselves did it for info, not necessarily for the pleasure). Ramsay, on the other hand... He definitely did it for his own enjoyment. What I meant when I said he won't be doing it for info (because Theon will have told him everything by then), I was kind of talking from the show-only audience's perspective. Like, the audience won't be able to say "he's only torturing him because he wants information". They'll have to admit that he's a sadistic psycho. As in, the audience won't have any excuses to "justify" Theon's torture (like so many people like to do, ugh >__>)

Speaking of that, I forgot to add this the last time. Sometimes I look up GoT reviews on Youtube and today I found two that justified stuff like that. One of the reviews was actually pretty decent and objective UNTIL the part where they mentioned Theon (this was for episode 2, btw). The woman basically said "Theon's torture was pretty gruesome to watch, but to be honest, he did deserve it," and the man just agreed with her and then she even added "It'll probably be horrible to watch, but at least it'll make us happy since it's Theon". And this wasn't coming just from a random fan, this was on a channel that does stuff a bit more professionally, if you know what I mean. I was beyond pissed off. >__> Not to mention that the woman then also said she was probably one of the few people that liked Talisa. They basically lost me at those two points. >__>
The other review was from a guy that only watches the show and it was about this week's episode. I was only half paying attention, so I'm not 100% sure, but I don't think he said anything like that about Theon. He did, however, say that he's glad they cut Jaime's hand off "because the guy deserved it - he killed my nigga Ned". Um... no. I facepalmed.

Nooo, why did you bring that up?! DD: I was perfectly fine not thinking about the RW in connection to Theon and now this headcanon of yours... ;___; I obviously don't have any headcanons about that but, omg, what if they DO go that way in the show?! That would kill me.

Well, I mean, I don't like to judge other people based on their ships, so let them ship what they want, I guess. As long as they only ship it within fictional realms and don't actually condone any of that stuff IRL. But when someone says that Theon "then realizes it was the kind of relationship he needed", then I'm gonna question this person's sanity tbh. Because wtf?! O_o
Btw, I also saw that pile of tweets you reblogged. It made me want to punch something. >__>

[janie_tangerine]

Nah exactly they can't have him change his freaking physical appearance until *that*. But yeah between the flaying, cutting fingers and possibly knocking off some teeth (hopefully not all)... yeaaahhriiightthatwouldbenoughthanks. I'm totally okay if they change it, really. The 'he looks like a sixty year old' is probably the thing that disgusts me most so CHANGES FTW REALLY.

And yeah ops sorry I got it wrong, yep I totally think that he played the guards too and that they all thought they were getting info but obviously the masterplan is just Ramsay's thing. And yeah I hope it goes like that for the audience but I still read some stuff on forums at times where they're like 'I hope that Ramsay captures him again because he still totally deserves it' so I suppose some people just don't give a shit as long as this poor guy is miserable? :/

... okay, if you like Talisa AND think Theon deserved it you're totally lost to me ;) and wtf ouch seriously can people just stop thinking that torturing people is justified in any context? I just . I can't even with those people X_X

also sorry how did Jaime kill Ned? Okay well he put a sword in his leg but HOW DID JAIME KILL NED that was all Joffrey/Littlefinger WTFFFF HOW. Not to mention that I always thought that Ned should have totally been less of an ass to Jaime considering that er Jaime had killed Aerys also because he saw Ned's father and his brother roasted alive in front of him, hhhmmmm. BUT OF COURSE SINCE JAIME IS A BAD PERSON LET'S ALSO SAY THAT HE KILLED NED, WTF. Of all the crap I've heard people say when I tell them that I like Jaime nothing ever was as bad as this. xD

... sorry. I swear I didn't mean it. Sorry. ;____;

Me neither - I mean, as long as you think that doing that IRL isn't cool then whatever go do your thing just don't make me see it. But IKR THAT PERSON I just - how is that the kind of relationship he needed...? I mean I could argue for hours about the fact that probably he'd want to feel like he actually belongs to *someone* if not *somewhere* but... an abusive relationship based on brainwashing where you aren't even allowed to keep your identity and you've been mutilated by the other person doesn't sound like that to me? not to mention that OPS WAIT 'I should have been with Robb' anyone? He already had it, no need to bring Ramsay into it - great, I just made myself depressed again

those tweets look like assholes central, don't they =_=

[the_crazy_freak]

Tbh, when reading the books, I just blocked that part from my mind. Like, I still imagined him as a young guy (and only with like, maybe 2 teeth missing at most). I don't think my brain was able to process the fact that a 22-year-old (is he 22? I actually don't remember) looks 60. So I rarely ever think about that part. =/

Ugh, there will always be those types of people. >__>

My thoughts exactly. I actually wanted to comment on that, but the guy disabled comments, lol. I wonder if he got shit for stuff and that's why he did it. I also remember him saying how he doesn't understand why Jaime would save Brienne from rape/death, because "he hasn't shown any redeeming qualities so far". And that him saving Brienne was OOC. Ugh, just... no fucking comment. (I mean, I guess you could argue that this guy hasn't read the books, but come on, that's no excuse)

That is exactly what Theon yearned for - he wanted to BELONG and he wanted to be ACCEPTED. I think this is why I never really hated him (like, even pre-ADWD he was in my top 10 Asoiaf characters list). Because I could actually somewhat relate to him on that level (the level of feeling like you don't belong). Imagine being taken from your home at the age of 8, by the people who killed your 2 brothers no less. You're then forced to grow up with those people and while they don't exactly treat you badly, there's always that threat that they will kill you, because hey, you're not actually their adopted son, but a fucking prisoner. And you basically don't belong anywhere anymore. You'll never TRULY be a part of this adoptive-prisoner family, but you're not quite a part of your own blood family either. And none of those people will ever FULLY accept you. You'll never be good enough for any of them. So yeah. Theon is flawed and misguided, but it's coming from a place of hurt and confusion (and the feeling of never being good enough - thus the need to "prove himself") and I don't get how people don't see that. And it's not like he never felt conflicted/guilty, unlike a lot of other characters in the books who don't get nearly as much hate as Theon does.

Also, that "I should have been with Robb at the wedding. I should have died with him," line absolutely killed me. ;______;

[janie_tangerine]

Yep. He's 22. And I read ADWD like the month before I turned 23, which...thinking that he was my age was so disturbing I couldn't even fathom how people could actively say they were happy about him getting his due. Like wtf NOPE. Never. Can't.

Also sorry but if you think that all there is to Jaime is being an ass who throws children off windows then you didn't even watch the show because they gave more than enough hints that there's more to it. And ffs haha OOC SURE. Did he hear that dialogue on the horse or what? I can't. People who can't accept that Jaime is more complicated than 'kills people fucks his sister' in my chart are just slightly better than the 'Theon deserves it' team -_-

ALSO YES TO ALL OF THAT. Apparently some people don't see the not-so-fine line between belonging and someone actually *owning* you without your consent/down to your basic functions, but... Seriously, how is Ramsay supposedly good for Theon is something that shouldn't even be a subject of discussion, let alone people actually thinking it's a thing. And tbh the fact that Theon just wanted to belong someplace and got the extrapervertedtwistednotconsensual version of it is horrifying, not good for him DDDD: (that line was the beginning of my downfall into the pit of Robb/Theon, other than.. Well, until then during Theon's chapters I mostly was like EW NO EW, at that point I just went and started sobbing, ooops. I never quite recovered from it. Just - I can't with it and everything it implies ;___; it probably says all that his relationship with Robb was probably the healthiest he ever had.... D:)

[the_crazy_freak]

Same tbh. A while ago I read some wonderful essay someone wrote on Jaime and it was exactly how I myself saw him and it was just perfect. And I don't get how people don't see him that way. Are some people just incapable of looking past the surface or?

"And tbh the fact that Theon just wanted to belong someplace and got the extrapervertedtwistednotconsensual version of it is horrifying, not good for him" <-- Ugh, exactly! That's actually the worst thing that could happen to him. I mean, it's obviously absolutely horrifying for ANYONE, but especially so for someone like Theon. :SSS
Yeah, the relationship with Robb WAS the healthiest he had. :( ;__;

[janie_tangerine]

I suppose it requires too much effort? Like, there's people that after five books are still 'BUT JAIME THREW BRAN OFF A WINDOW AND FUCKED HIS SISTER!!!1!!' and 'THEON STILL DESERVED IT!' so they obviously refuse to see past the surface or I don't even know. Like, there's more to them than that. =__=''''

Like sure thing have all that happen to him when he's already saddled with issues GO AHEAD NO PROBLEM *CRIES* (like I doubt that someone... er, more stable, if that's even the right word, would have been that thoroughly fucked up to the extent f *forgetting who they were* D: which only makes the whole thing with Jeyne even more poignant and when people say that 'but it was one thing it doesn't make up for the rest of the shit he did' I just go like 'way to miss the point you'. =_=)

When your healthiest relationship is with the son of a guy who could kill you at any moment it's proof that you should be a go for posting on FML.com I think *laughs so that she doesn't cry* ;___;

[the_crazy_freak]

I decided to check out the Theon tag (for the first time, I think; I rarely ever use tags in general) and I can finally see what you mean when you say there are some seriously annoying people on there. >__>

This doesn't have anything to do with Theon, but I wanted to mention it anyway: I saw the Stannis post you reblogged earlier and I wanted to thank you, because I think I needed to read that to kind of "restore my faith" in the character after the way he's been acting on the show. :)

[janie_tangerine]

Meh, looking at the general tag is probably an act of masochism. I keep on doing it just because in theory when going on someone's tag it shouldn't be crawling with annoying and I refuse to be driven from it because it is (if it makes sense), but the Theon one is assholes central pretty much half of the time. =_=''

WASN'T THAT META AWESOME? ;__; it was like 70% of why I'm totally fond of book!Stannis but put in better words, lol. but yeah if the shows keeps on fucking up at least we have the books? also seriously after reading that meta I just want fluff fic where Davos hugs him or something WHAT

[the_crazy_freak]

Yeah. >_> I mean, when you see posts titled "Theon Greyjoy, you piece of shit" you basically just wanna leave. -__-;

OMG, YES! :DD But seriously, compare book!Stannis to show!Stannis when it comes to this quote: One of my favorite parts of the series is when Stannis and Davos are reunited after Blackwater, and Stannis says "I missed you, ser". <-- This is what book!Stannis said/did. Show!Stannis said "I thought you were dead" and threw him in the dungeons. The difference is quite big.