So, I had my little boy on January 9, 2009.
Ben and I named him Atem.
He's just so wonderful and darling and small. Compared to Oliver he's teeny! And Oliver looks like a 5 year old. The kid is only 3 1/2.
I know Oliver is a little jealous about me holding Atem all the time and nursing him all the time. I try to spend as much of my free time with him as possible. Like when Atem is asleep in the bassinet. I read to Oliver and play with him and watch a movie with him and let him know I am still here for him. He has gotten his 3 year old independence though and has started talking back to me and Ben, and even Zack (Oliver's father). I really dislike the attitude but there seems to be nothing I can do about it at this point, but let it blow over I guess. and work with him as much as possible.
anyways. Here's a picture of Atem
Love,
Janice