Apr 06, 2005 15:54
BODIES
Body’s are something you are controlling. You are not your body or mind. You are you a being controlling your body like you control a car. When you control a car the car can be said to be the body and you can be acting as the sprit. Now all of this is pretty in front of you and not hard to see, but we do not think about this all the time. Your body needs fuel like food, water and vitamins. It needs sun too. You are a spirit that has been around for thousands of millions of years and even more.
Today people are thought of as body’s, that you have this life and then its done, finished, no more life. You’ve heard the saying “you only live once” no that was just as saying someone made to justify doing some stupid thing that they knew was stupid. Or you have heard “I think you should try everything once” sure its fine to try new things but why don’t you just change it to “I love drugs and I cant take responsibility for my self and live a good life so I’m going to do lots of drugs or some other stupid thing”.
Ok now on people. There are a lot of smart people out there that are not just body’s and maybe there body’s are not the greatest, they are still people and good people at that. Now you are not going to find someone that is perfect in everything they do, you can find people that have good traits though and do not screw you over. That’s what you need to find. People that look good that have no personality are stupid, don’t bother with them. If they screw you over then fuck’em don’t let them be in your life. The same goes for anyone that try’s to screw you over.
Ok now you are going to find people that are a little nuts and are not really harmful but do weird crazy embarrassing things. Ok well maybe they are good people and they just have some issues, well so…help them out. Who doesn’t have issues huh? Maybe they are wired but you are not perfect…I am not perfect we all do weird and crazy things sometimes. If you know that someone needs help on something try and help them out, be a friend.
Now there is this shadiness going around where people judge to fast. I really don’t think that is right. Why don’t you get to know someone a little in different situations before you just label them “stupid” or whatever. They are beings to and everyone needs some helping out. But like I said before…if someone is just going to fuck you over and you really know that drop them.
There is also the “my friend does not like them so I don’t like them yet they have been nothing but nice to me” now I know help and trust are sketchy subjects these days because you don’t know who will F you over or who wont. Now there is always room for a chance. If there is something potentially good in a person it is worth helping them out or seeing what they are about.
Now I was talking about not letting people screw you over and talking about giving people a chance, well I’m going to break that down. If someone is maybe being rude or mean at one time, that does not mean they are always like that, it could be the mood they are in or they have something on there mind and want to be left alone. Maybe they say something derogatory to you at some time, it does not mean they mean it, they are your friends they know what pushes your buttons and they said it maybe because of an argument or some conflict you were having with each other but they probably don’t mean what they say. Now a friend or someone might do something that is really not ok with you but if they come back and apologize and are willing to make up the damage you should give them a chance. But if something like this happens over and over when you have already talked to them about knocking it off and helping them then it is not worth it you should not have them in your life. On situations like this it is up to you to judge.
So you chose your friends. You can have good friends or not. If you like someone but someone you know does not then see how they are and if you don’t you don’t but maybe you will like them and that’s fine. You mind should not be swayed by other people unless you really, really feel that that person is right and have seen it. But if you like someone don’t let someone else’s down talk on that person sway you unless it is something you feel you need to take into account.