Its nothing new..
that I am often a listening ear in times of need or the shoulder to lie on whenever a friend of mine runs into trouble. Too many people have told me that I am brotherly figure.
Of course there are a select few who I really care about more than the others and I am prepared to shoulder their problems for them. They know who they are.
When I am there for you in your worst times, is it so easy to disregard me once you are out of that nasty zone, maybe it is? Admittedly over the years, there have been times where I do feel unappreciated, being there for someone, only for you to be forgotten once their issues have blown over. Some people only want the temporary relief of their immediate suffering and will be ready to backstab you the moment you have your backs turned on them or when they no longer have a need for you. They just want someone to yell at and pour out their heart's contents. It doesn't mean that they are your friend or treat you like one.
Lesson learnt, never never think that your close friendship with someone is going to supersede his / her significant other. Say anything bad, you know who's taking the hit.
Upon the revelation of certain stuff, i do feel hurt. But dont even ask me what this is about. Its times like this where I feel like I dont have anyone I can pour my hearts out to, not without fear of crushing them. Who's going to be my pillar?
All I ask is, be nice people.
As the red-mist clears, it does appear that someone is prime choice for being that close friend. Lets see if he/she knows and actually does something about it
Of course there are a select few who I really care about more than the others and I am prepared to shoulder their problems for them. They know who they are.
When I am there for you in your worst times, is it so easy to disregard me once you are out of that nasty zone, maybe it is? Admittedly over the years, there have been times where I do feel unappreciated, being there for someone, only for you to be forgotten once their issues have blown over. Some people only want the temporary relief of their immediate suffering and will be ready to backstab you the moment you have your backs turned on them or when they no longer have a need for you. They just want someone to yell at and pour out their heart's contents. It doesn't mean that they are your friend or treat you like one.
Lesson learnt, never never think that your close friendship with someone is going to supersede his / her significant other. Say anything bad, you know who's taking the hit.
Upon the revelation of certain stuff, i do feel hurt. But dont even ask me what this is about. Its times like this where I feel like I dont have anyone I can pour my hearts out to, not without fear of crushing them. Who's going to be my pillar?
All I ask is, be nice people.
As the red-mist clears, it does appear that someone is prime choice for being that close friend. Lets see if he/she knows and actually does something about it