grrr

Jun 28, 2006 00:03

How is this coming to me?

Hey Ward....... Important

Okay I am about to tell you something that you can forgive us about or you don't have to, but I really hope you do. I know that you have been very good in managing bands, and don't take this offensively its just that we think that it would be better if you managed our band instead of being the lead vocalist. Ward you are an awesome awesome guy to hang out with don't get me wrong, its just that we need strong vocals for our first show and our shows following. you even said yourself that you don't have a great singing voice. I still want you to come to practices everday time so all of can hang out, please do not this get in the way of our friendship at all. what we were going to do was get a vocalist that could be there on thursday and have them sing for us on the 8th, we can use your lyrics to if you want or have them have their own lyrics, I will say it again. I am so sorry I had to say this we just had to get it off of our chest, and we hope to god that you are not mad at us about this. you told us you wanted us to tell you anything that we might have had a problem with and, we just think that you would be an awesome manager for our band, and we want to feel very comfortable about the vocals along with the music, please understand how we fell, and hope that we have a longing relationship as friends,
Jeremy, Duncan, Ben

First off I completely agree that getting strong vocals is the smart move. Yes, I did say to come to me if you have something to say, but how the hell is sending a message to my myspace over the myspace account I CREATED coming to me. Waiting until less than 2 weeks before the first means that someone went behind my back to already find a new vocalist. To know I want you to come to me to talk and then send stuff over a computer pisses me off. The timing is bad and the way it is done is disrespectful. I put this band together with Ben and for him to not even talk to me pisses me off. Being told I can't sing is disappointing because I have wanted to do it since middleschool, but I understand that. Not having the guts to talk to me and wait until the last possible moment and doing it over myspace PISSES ME OFF. I now see that while I was sitting at the practice space calling all of them for 30 minutes today they were avoiding me. If you want to keep the friendship then do something like this in a respectable and friendly manner. More than anything I can't believe Ben would hang out with me since we started this band and be a friend like he has for almost 2 years now and then go about this in such a way. We are good friends so talk to my face. Am I really some scary guy that is so intimidating that you can't talk to me about this? Come, everyone that knows me knows that is not true. I am not some rough and tough guy that is going to throw punches and trash stuff. I am so pissed now. Not about being told they want a different singer, but about being avoided and then sent a mesage on myspace.

NOW I CAN'T SLEEP!
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