Talking Adventures
I love talking to Kate.
Today we met eachother at India House (walking), and it was closed.
So, instead, we walked to the Red Enchilada and ate sopaipillas and honey. YUMMMMMM.
Been there with her so many times. We talked AGAIN for maybe an hour or so, and then walked to One World Coffee shop or whatever it's called and talked the entire time going. I was telling her a story of my adolescence...hardly anyone asks me the details of that part of my life between myself and my mother and a certain young man. When we got to One World, we sat on the train tracks and finished telling eachother our stories on similar subjects. We talked about the psychology of our families, we talked about people who have degraded us, we talked about respect and communication and mothers and boys, we talked about love and affection and touch and what we want, we talked about oral fixations and pleasure languages, we talked about our childhoods and how our infant personalities and character traits still resonate today. Then we walked BACK to the college... overall, I believe we talked and told real stories of our lives for about 2 1/2 hours. It seems the more we know eachother, the more there is to find, the more there is to know. We never stop asking eachother about the depths of our lives. And of course we dualled eachother and pushed eachother around in playful little fights, slapping our feet up secretly against eachother's cheeks while we were walking side by side. You know, the kinds of things my Dad used to do to me when I was little.
I love talking to her. We have deep, unconfined, powerful connections. We are sisters, best friends, lovers, playful opponents, and mothers to eachother. We transcend all labels, and it's one of the most beautiful things I've ever experienced in my life. She's changed my life in a big way, that's for sure, and I love her so much. It's quite possible we may travel big places together someday (like So. America and Africa)...and have even more adventures. There's so much to do, so much to see, so much to help, so much to know, so much to discover. One possibility we've thought about for the future is having a radiotalk show together... because we talk so well to eachother, about so many things. Thus, why I love talking to her.
Today we met eachother at India House (walking), and it was closed.
So, instead, we walked to the Red Enchilada and ate sopaipillas and honey. YUMMMMMM.
Been there with her so many times. We talked AGAIN for maybe an hour or so, and then walked to One World Coffee shop or whatever it's called and talked the entire time going. I was telling her a story of my adolescence...hardly anyone asks me the details of that part of my life between myself and my mother and a certain young man. When we got to One World, we sat on the train tracks and finished telling eachother our stories on similar subjects. We talked about the psychology of our families, we talked about people who have degraded us, we talked about respect and communication and mothers and boys, we talked about love and affection and touch and what we want, we talked about oral fixations and pleasure languages, we talked about our childhoods and how our infant personalities and character traits still resonate today. Then we walked BACK to the college... overall, I believe we talked and told real stories of our lives for about 2 1/2 hours. It seems the more we know eachother, the more there is to find, the more there is to know. We never stop asking eachother about the depths of our lives. And of course we dualled eachother and pushed eachother around in playful little fights, slapping our feet up secretly against eachother's cheeks while we were walking side by side. You know, the kinds of things my Dad used to do to me when I was little.
I love talking to her. We have deep, unconfined, powerful connections. We are sisters, best friends, lovers, playful opponents, and mothers to eachother. We transcend all labels, and it's one of the most beautiful things I've ever experienced in my life. She's changed my life in a big way, that's for sure, and I love her so much. It's quite possible we may travel big places together someday (like So. America and Africa)...and have even more adventures. There's so much to do, so much to see, so much to help, so much to know, so much to discover. One possibility we've thought about for the future is having a radiotalk show together... because we talk so well to eachother, about so many things. Thus, why I love talking to her.