Just a couple things
1. I think a lot of people meet me and think that I'm interesting and then lose interest when they find out that, really, I'm just weird and quite boring.
2. ( cut for something you may not have cared to know about me but most of you already do anyway )
2. ( cut for something you may not have cared to know about me but most of you already do anyway )
2. That is a very sad and unfortunate situation, and I'm truly sorry that it happened to you. I can completely understand why you feel like you should say something. It's a delicate situation no matter how you approach it. You have told your father before, so even if he won't intercede for you at least he's someone who can possibly vouch for the story being true. I think you should say something, especially if it'll save someone else going through the same trauma you did. In terms of how to approach it, would you say you're closer to your cousin's wife or to his mom (your aunt)? I'd venture to say your aunt would be a better bet of the two, but it's hard to say. Nobody wants to believe someone they love would molest a relative, and it could well be that he would not do that sort of thing again, but there's no way to know that if it's happened before. You will probably encounter some resistance from whoever you tell, no matter which person you choose. Even if they don't believe you at first, the seed will be planted. They will more than likely wonder about it and be on the lookout for any signs of that sort of thing. It will probably be a tough conversation, but if it means that this girl won't suffer as you did, it'll be worth it. I support whatever you decide to do, but be sure it will help you feel better, too. *huggles*
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