May 17, 2006 23:50
ok, so here's the deal:
craig and i broke up for good (yeah yeah yeah, about time, i know). was single for a while which was nice, a good cushion between relationships. i'm now dating james. here's the deal with him:
met him through kelly and zach. it was actually april 1st, i think. the day i got my hair cut, i remember that. i'm over at kelly's and he calls trying to get directions to her house. i'm in the backround helping to give directions and he's like "who's that girl in the backround?" kelly says "that's my friend, melissa." he says, "what's she look like?". "she's really cute." "yeah right, when friends say that it really means the girl's ugly and single and desperate." so i cut in with "alright bud, come meet me, i'll make you eat those words." so, kelly and i drive to meet him on raeford road. he pulls up beside us and leans towards his passenger side window to see us. kelly leans back, i lean forward, and she says "this is my ugly friend, melissa." he gets this "i just shit the bed" look on his face and i just can't help but crack up. so we hit it off that night. kelly gives him my number a few days later and we talk on the phone for about 2 weeks. have some really long conversations too which is nice. so, the first time we go out is when breaking passover with ilana, about april 20th or so. he and i head over to her house to basically pig out and have a few beers. then the first, real date we have is probably a week later. we go to chili's for dinner and talk for a long time :D then we go bowling and play two games. there's really not much to do in fayetteville. we go back to the chili's parking lot so i can pick up my car and actually spend about 45 minutes talking. our first kiss was may 1st. and we became official on may 7. he's really an awesome guy, who's the opposite of craig. i'm really excited to see where things head with him. he's such a great guy. so now you guys know who he is so i won't confuse anyone further with any reference to james. and he gives the best hugs too. i love his hugs. and he likes to cuddle and is naturally affectionate in a way similar to me. i don't have to ask for affection!!! :D it's great. time for bed now.